went in to labour and lost my baby on the thursday 22/03/07 just wondering when i could start for another one i missing him loads and i want him back so much as my wee sis is due in a week but i cant woithout a baby anymore as it would of been my 1st child please help me on what to do thanks
2007-03-27 09:11:26 · 10 answers · asked by gina m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I'm so sorry for your loss.
You should ask your doctor about when it would physically be okay for you to start trying again.
Might it be of help to talk to someone who has been through what you are going through? You can get help, support and advice from the Miscarriage Associate:
http://www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/
You can call their helpline on: 01924 200799 (Mon-Fri, 9am - 4pm)
There is an article at "Womens Health" about coping with miscarriage that may help. It has some coping tips:
http://www.womens-health.co.uk/miscarr.htm
2007-03-27 09:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, I loss my baby girl on 16/03/07. She was born at 22 weeks. I tried for her for over 3 years and finally got her through IVF. I know how your feel to some extent, but I know that nobody can feel the same way someone else feels. My sister in-law just had a baby today and I can't bring myself to see her. Take your time and make sure your healthy before trying again. Trust me, I know the feeling of wanting another baby. I also have to deal my sister who is due a month after I was. I would recommend waiting at least a month before trying again. My doctors are making me wait a month because of hormones. Your baby boy would want you to happy, but he would want you to healthy first.
2007-03-29 22:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by dcarroll28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart breaks for your loss, I had problems with premature labor and had my middle son at 33 weeks; while I was fortunate I do remember the stress and terror I felt. Because I do not know why you lost your baby I would recommend asking your doctor if it is safe to try again. You should also ask about a cerc colage. It is a procedure that ties the cervix together and prevents early dilation. My husbands cousin had it done and was able to carry her second child full term. I will say a prayer for you and your baby and I hope your doctor can help you.
2007-03-27 16:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by future dr.t (IM) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give your body time to heal. Focus on helping your sister with her baby. I have had 2 miscarriages both only first trimester. The first one was in may of 1999. Found out in Jan of 2000 that I was pregnant, I prayed a lot through out my pregnancy. Had a son Sept. 18, 2000.. I had to learn that if it is god's will, then it must be his way.. I prayed a lot, no really, a lot.
2007-03-27 20:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by TeresaG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I know my friend had a child who passes away shortly after she was born and my friend had to wait 3-6 months before she got the ok from her doctor. Good news she did get pregnant again and had another beautiful little girl. While it didn't replace her first baby it helped her move on. I hope you find happiness again.
2007-03-27 16:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by got all I need 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss i think you should wait a little while till you are emotionally ready aswell as physically ready my sister lost her baby at 22weeks so i know how up set you must be.also i know it will hurt when your sis has her baby but just keep thinking positive lots and lots of luck to you and your partner xx
2007-03-28 09:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by honey112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss lost a baby at ten weeks can only imagine how your feeling, i let myself grieve and my body recover then went on to have a baby girl
2007-03-28 09:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that happened to you. I think you need to mourn the loss of this baby before you start to try for another.
I would also consult your doctor and your husband about when they think it's time.
2007-03-27 16:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by charlie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am so very sorry for your loss...You really need to speak to your Dr. about when you can start trying again..you have to wait a while and let your body heal, your Dr. will let you know....again so sorry..Good Luck!
2007-03-27 16:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa ♥'s Tim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am extremely soory for your lost....JUST PRAY , PRAY 7 PRAY SOME MORE!...
ill also say al ittle prayer for you
2007-03-27 16:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by somebodysmamasoon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋