She claims to be but I dont beleive her because she is crazy
2007-03-27 09:00:27 · 44 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
tell her that you want to attend her next appointment with her to be more "supportive". I'm sure she will take you up on the offer if she really is
2007-03-27 09:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with all of the above answers, but I also have a small issue with you.
You say you don't believe her because she is crazy. Just because someone is crazy doesn't mean that she is definitely lying. Someone who doesn't believe something when it could be true, has some issues as well. Maybe you mean that you doubt her. That means that you don't know. There is a difference.
There are two problems here. One is that you don't know whether she is pregnant and the other is that if she is pregnant, you may not be certain the baby is yours.
I would ask her how she knows she is pregnant. If she took a test, I'd ask to see the results. If she didn't take a test, I'd ask her if it would be okay if I purchased a test kit for her to use.
2007-03-30 13:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point within the first 12 weeks of pregnancy she's going to start pre-natal care (if she is prego) and that's how you'll know short of her taking an over the counter pregnancy test in front of you. Watch her like a hawk, making sure she doesn't have a menstrual cycle and look for any weight gain within the next 3-4 months (especially fullness in the chin and cheeks also womens' noses tend to widen).
You said it yourself she is crazy, so if and when she has a child, don't take her word for it that it's yours'....get a paternity test to save you money and hardships in the future. And get away from her!!!!!
Good luck!
2007-03-27 09:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if she was that crazy you shouldnt have slept with her. She could be pregnant, she could be telling you a lie. But you should be treating this situation like she is pregnant with your child, because if she is, and in fact it is your child, you will feel much better you were actually there for her and the baby. If shes lying it goes to show the type of person she is and hopefully you cut all ties. You can buy a test over the counter and make her take it with you there, you can ask her if shes been to the OB yet, and ask her who she sees and when her next appointment is, ask her for something from her doc saying shes pregnant. Call her dr and ask when her next appointment is, get a chick to call and act like her, and im sure they will tell you over the phone when it is. As long as she pretends to be the chick thats pregnant. You will need to know a date of appointment ( or whenever this chick tells you) and her DOB. thats probably about all you will need to find out.
2007-03-27 09:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow a girl did this to my brother! Crazy woman! haha well shoot first of all go buy a pregnancy test! I like first response. and call her to your house and have her take the test right in front of you! Thats what my brother did and the girl freaked out and told him she wasn;t so hopefully that will be the same if she is crazy but good luck that is what i would do
2007-03-27 09:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok crazy idea.....a little gross, but theoretically it would work.
Do the little "make a person pee trick"
Get a bowl of warm water and you have to dip her hand in it. Supposedly it makes someone not be able to control bladder when sleeping. Then just use a home pregnancy test...
I suggest some gloves as well.
You could just ask her for proof.....if you doubted her enough, would she do it herself?
2007-03-27 09:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by PrinceEJB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tape a pregnancy test to the inside of the toilet, or charge into the bathroom with test in hand, catch her off gaurd-- wait, wont she just take a test for you? And why dont you belive her, I wouldnt lie about something like that? Good Luck
2007-03-27 09:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Pregnancy test.
2. Wait 9 (10) months to see if a baby shows up.
2007-03-27 09:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few months. You'll be able to tell. By the way, why are you having "relations" with someone you think is crazy? I pray that she's not, for the poor innocent child's sake.
2007-03-27 09:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU buy a pregnancy test and make her take it...watching her the full time. Also suggest to go with her to the doctor. Are you the only person she has slept with...<
2007-03-27 09:05:56
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Have her take the pregnancy test again and show you the results. Wait 9 months and see if she pops out a kid.
2007-03-27 09:06:06 · answer #11 · answered by Misty B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋