okay so i've always been curious. and lately..i'm becoming more attracted to girls. my friends and i experimented making out a couple yrs ago and i really didnt mind it. she and i then discussed more but she has a bf so that wont work. but now...on my sports team at school there are 2 lesbians. i'm really attracted to one but theyre going out. i dont know how to bring this to their attention and maybe try stuff out or not just one day be like hey!! im attracted to girls...help!!!! what can i do?? i've always had boyrfriends and ahh i still love guys but im finding myself more and more attracted to girls. and i'm in high school if that helps...
2007-03-27 08:59:34 · 8 answers · asked by MSU 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're still growing and finding out who you are. Don't label yourself just yet. And please don't try to break up the girl couple just because they appear to be lesbians and you want to make out with them. When you get into college, there'll be more girls like yourself to hang out with and learn from. Take your time.
2007-03-27 09:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol oh wow i think u just answer ur own question. see i am a lesbian also, i like to help people out with coming out. I think u should just go and ask them to help u out, u can do it in a nice manner way. and i think that they will have a idea by now that u may be bi or curious, it a gay thing lol. i am sure that ya being in the same team and knowing each other, they would help u out but trying to break them, it is not nice or fair to them. also if u shy, trying read. try google and type gay center, they have various of info that can help u out and making out with someone else is not cool either, specially if she has a bf
2007-03-27 16:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by angiesupers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, there's nothing wrong with figuring out your sexuality. Good for you! BUT u shouldnt try to break the 2 girls up who have already found eachother. That's just rude! Go out and about and meet sumone else for u to experiment with. Hopefully you'll sort your feelings out and find whatever makes u happy.
2007-03-27 16:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try contacting an organization like P-Flag. Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. They are supportive, confidetial, and can point you in touch with people that you could talk to so that you could understand what you are feeling. you could also try looking up support groups up on the Internet.
2007-03-27 16:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Happy_Bappy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over with your father. Being a man he'll know exactly what the right women would be for your type.
2007-03-27 16:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ok that's fine, I can't really tell you how to attract your teammates at school (an after practice backrub in the shower perhaps?) but whatever you do, please, please , for the love of god... let your boyfriend join in!!! He will be your devoted slave I promise...
2007-03-27 16:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by John L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The bible says that you're supposed to wait until you're married to have a sexual relationship. So, until you're married to that woman, or man, you're going to have to settle for "making out." Sorry, that's what my Pastor told us too.....
J/K :-)
2007-03-27 16:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Good for you! But, could you really want to hear all that bitching all day long?
2007-03-27 16:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋