a way of doing it without them noticing that's wot you're trying to do. To get some of ur independence/control back.
2007-03-27 08:55:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ignore his behavior, and do things your way. Either he will get the hint, or you will have a big blowout and go your separate ways before you get stuck with him.
2007-03-27 09:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can stop him, as this is pretty much his programmed behaviour ....
from personal experience .. dont fall for it, dont even start to think that this something that will get better with time...
It will eventually get violent. and it will be cuz u did not take controll of it at the right time... which is now...
The only way of getting ur independence is by leaving him.
I know i made them mistake of thinking he would change... he did got violent, abusive and even after i broker up tried all means to mess with me....
so get out and get ur life back on track..
I will pray for u ...
2007-03-27 09:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop them. Trying to change another person is just YOU becoming controlling.
All you can do is to either leave or resist control.
A person only has as much control as we give them. So if he is successful at being controlling, that means you allow him to have control.
So you can't prevent someone from trying to control, but you can refuse to be controlled.
2007-03-27 09:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't get it back because you've allowed him to take it.
He knows how to get under your skin and how to push you in the corner. The only thing that you can do is to leave him and don't go back. He won't change. Ever.
2007-03-27 09:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My beautiful Indian princess does not have to worry about that with me. I do not concern myself with those thoughts of her.Simply put, I not only love her, but I TRUST HER! She is so FANTASTIC! I'd be a fool to lose her because of jealousy, when she is doing NOTHING wrong!!!!!!!!
2007-03-27 09:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to stop because it is bothering you. If he doesn't stop, then you have no choice but to leave him. Hopefully, he will get the hint.
2007-03-27 09:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and even thinking that you can is contrary to nature.
A guy is what he is, if you don't like it move on and find someone else. For you to think that you can change a guy is unrealistic and selfish.
2007-03-27 08:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can't. if they are controlling they'll see the difference right away and then they'll get even more controlling and overbearing.
2007-03-27 09:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from what I read - your not married - I would LEAVE this person.
Why would you stay in a relationship like this - it will get violent next.
2007-03-27 08:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by WhatNext 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he leaves, then pack your **** and get out!!! A man can only control you if you let him!!!!
2007-03-27 09:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋