I'm 22 year Somali student at the University of Minnesota. a group of us went down to Miami for spring break and my girl friend was one of them. while we were down there my girl friend caught me kissing a another girl from the group. what should I do.
2007-03-27 08:49:20 · 21 answers · asked by WARYAA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be a man! Own up to your mistakes. Take complete responsiblity, and let her take the lead on where the relationship heads from now on.
2007-03-27 08:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you are not into your girl as much as you thought or else you wouldn't have been hooking up with another one. Think about what you want...do you want to stay with your girl? And if so....does she even want you now? I'm sure you looked pretty low in her eyes when she caught you..not that you are a bad person or anything...but in her eyes it sure looked that way. If you want to work things out with your girl then you need to find a way to beg for forgiveness and have a pretty damn good reason as to why you were kissing another girl. Its hard I know and we all do stupid s h i t but you'll figure out what you want.
2007-03-27 08:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it was just kissing I wouldn't get too worried about it. The kiss could have been done on a dare or a bet from a third party and not amounted to anything. Find a third party who will attest to this.
2007-03-27 08:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your girlfriend caught you she had to say something. Besides at 22 do you really what to stay with just one person the hole time your in collage. How fun is that? read ten stupid things men do to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger. It might answer some of your questions.
2007-03-27 08:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about your girlfriend and want to make things right you need to show her and express to her how sorry you are and that it will never happen again. If you did not feel bad about the kiss afterwards than you do not care for your girlfriend very much and you just need to move on with your life.
2007-03-27 08:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly_2blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got caught. Even if you kissed, girls get so piss and treat and make it seem like you had sex with that girl. Just tell her that you are sorry need a bunch of roses and another gift and explain the situation and tell its an accident. If she really likes you, she would forgive you, if you dont, dont waste your time with her because the situation will get worst and plus you lost her trust. Good Luck though
2007-03-27 08:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe confront her and talk to her about it...If she's mad she has every right to be because thats cheating...but talk to her about it apologize, try to make it up to her...But if you think it might happen again than you need to break up with her cause thats not fair for her to be cheated on...So you need to decide if you want to stay in the relationship and make it up or if you just wanna be a single guy!
2007-03-27 08:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by ~small town girl~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start making plans with the other girl from the group.
You and your girlfriend are finished.
2007-03-27 08:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) stop whining like your a victim, you cheated! nice work, genius. 2) how pissed she is is going to depend on how long youve been together, if it hasnt been long, and your already cheating, you probably shouldnt be together. if its been a long time, get on your knees and start begging, because youve got a lot of work ahead of ya, buddy. and if she does forgive you, stop being a dumbass.
2007-03-27 08:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by SuperAdmin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look some where else or deal with trying to get her trust back
2007-03-27 08:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋