what would you do if you knew that you were dieing would tell your sister in law not to come to your furneral i have one sister in law and she ignores both me and my family if we meet on the street or at our aunties house she also dose not speek to any of our family
2007-03-27 08:44:32 · 17 answers · asked by Granny 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if you`re dead it`s hardly up to you who to invite is it......? What are you doing - sending out invitations....? I mean come on, you`re dead and basically it`s up to her whether or not she goes to your funeral. How you gonna stop her ? It doesn`t matter about her speaking to you - you`ll be dead remember. WTF....
WTF IS WITH ALL THIS THUMBS DOWN THING ? EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OWN OPINION - NOT YOUR OPINION - THEIR OWN !!IF YOU DON`T AGREE WITH CERTAIN PEOPLE THEY`RE STRAIGHT THERE - JUST DO ONE TOSSERS !
2007-03-27 10:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My friend and i were talking about this the other day and we were saying if one of us found out we were terminally ill we would have have a living wake. Its where you have the funeral after party before you die, that way you get to say goodbye, choose your own music, food etc and have a say in who attends. It also stops the begga friends who you dont really know but who are soo devastated from showing up, and means you get to have that final say in who gets your priceless teaset lol x
2007-03-27 16:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
families are just not what they use to be.....i have learned from experience that family is crueler than the devil himself and i have three sisters and four brothers and my mother passed away april 2000 and father is an abuser and never speak to him anyway and so i live 800 miles from him and only two of my sisters live here and three of my brothers live here is same county.....one of sisters and one of brothers i have had lots of trouble with......my sister that i have trouble with thought i won alot of money from that over seas crap that they were trying to get me to send them so much money and they would send me $385,000 but i turned the check into my local sherriffs office cause it was a scam anyways she has tried to sue me over money saying all kinds of lies about me i had to hire an attorney and everything which by the way costed me money i didnt have.....i have always tried to help my family or friends when in need of money food clothes a place to stay but it really hurts when someone craps on you.... i have thought about what happens if i die i told my mate i didnt want someone who dont care about me now there at my funeral crying over me when i am gone i put it in writing in my will i dont want her or my evil sister in law there.......i dont think things will ever change with the way families are anymore until everything is over with....good luck and hopefully things change for the better for you if not stop her and ask her what the heck her problem is......
2007-03-27 16:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would not let her come after all if she does not even talk to you in the street she does not deserve to be there the only people who should be there are people who love you and care for you not someone who is selfish and ignorant....
2007-03-27 15:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that she is family and that you should let her no what is going off and leave it up to her if she comes or not, she may choose to cling to you till the funeral, and if that is the case then at least you are close, if she choses not come then it is not the end of the world as you aren't that close. do what you think is best. good luck xx
2007-03-27 16:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was dying! I would tell her not to come. If people cannot be bothered with me in life I don't want them gloating that I've gone!
So brothers if your reading this don't bother coming to my funeral otherwise I'll make if yours next!
2007-03-28 06:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by KANGA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When someone dies, so should their problems/differences etc. die too.... funerals are for the living to make amends and to grieve their losses.. if she needs to do that..... then let her
2007-03-27 15:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by bossfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't speak to your sister-in-law & she doesn't speak to you either then i don't think you should say anything & she will come if she wants to pay her respects.
in life & death forgiveness & best wishes is the key to happiness.
2007-03-27 16:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nt bein funny love bu if she dwn spk t u y wud she wana go t ya funeral????
2007-03-29 12:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i knew i was dying, i would make it clear who i wanted at my funeral, i personally wouldnt want my whole family there, as we have no contact anymore, its a personal choice
2007-03-27 16:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋