Met a guy and had an instant extreme dislike.
Everything about him just annoyed the *&)*) out of me.
I also went out of my way to let him know that I despised him with passion.
But then our eyes met for the first time....lo and behold...I felt like I'm at home and had a feeling of a lock and a key (strange I know)...
The thing is I don't know this guy -- he's just some stranger who turned my life upside down.
And NO...we're not dating, but I noticed that he noticed me too considering I was very rude to him.
what do you think of this experience? what exactly am I experiencing?
2007-03-27 08:43:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, that happens - means you had an instant emotional connection - funny isn't it? The first anger then attraction - I'd take some care of it - might be a valuable relationship. I think the first flash of anger is what we always feel, but usually much more slowly, at accepting someone new into our lives.
2007-03-27 08:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by All hat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then just stand by go to parties yo know he will be at. get a ride there if he dont get drunk then walk up next to him and kinda pout you know look sad! if he says whats wrong say your ride is drunk and you wont get in the car with them so you have no ride if he duzint say any thing wait like a few secs then ask him if he will give you a ride if yes then have a quit ride home befor you get out of the car say thank and your not as bad as i thought you were. then the next time you see him make it soon but not by plan say hi so and so use there name lol and smile BIG wave too that helps that will start it off good
2007-03-27 08:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rose W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like infatuation or the beginning of a really good relationship considering you aren't rude to him anymore. Maybe you should give him a chance and see where a relationship with him might possibly go.
2007-03-27 08:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people would say that you were a couple in a former life, and your gut reaction to him, is probably the right one. Maybe he murdered you or something before.
I would stay away from him, because he may do the same thing in this life.
2007-03-27 08:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the emotions of love (or lust) and hate are both very strong physically emotions they can get confused. This is why make up sex is usually so good. Or angry sex for that matter. I think your extreme dislike for this guy just ramped up your emotions for him when you finally looked at him as a potential partner.
2007-03-27 08:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens to all of at one time in our lives. I've had the same thing happen to me. Once we were alone it was MAGICAL!!!! We both knew it could never be more than that, but it was great while it lasted.
2007-03-27 08:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have just seen the most beautiful eyes in the world!
either that or it was love at first sight!
get his number and hang out with him!
2007-03-27 08:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
strangely, "dying" isn't a black and white line, i.e. you could attitude dying or die and nevertheless be revived. In different words, the "journey" particularly happens with the aid of fact the innovations starts working returned.
2016-10-20 13:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met a guy, thought you hated him and found out that you desperately want to sleep with him! That's it honey - it really isn't as deep as you'd like it to be!!! Sorry!
2007-03-27 08:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are so confused that you are confusing yourself if he likes you after being rude he is a keeper
2007-03-27 08:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋