I broke up with my boyfriend after going out for 2 yrs (since we were 12) he was constantly texting a 'friend' and his best friend informed me that some of the messages were a bit too friendly. But apparently he was stiring things up because he liked me. So i realised what a horrible mistake id made and was about to ask wether he would forgive me, when my best friend told me that she thinks she is in love with him, and i tryed to tell her that i wanted to get back together with him, but she tried to tell me that i was being unreasonable. I really like him a lot, but my best friend does as well and is trying to convince me that i shouldnt ask him back out because its unfair. I really want to go back out with him and keep being friends with my best mate, can anyone think of how to do this? I also know that he still likes me.
2007-03-27 08:31:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My best friend thinks that my ex boyfriend might like her, im not sure but he says he still likes me.
2007-03-27 08:50:33 · update #1
honey you're 14. Friends matter more than boyfriends. Their a waste of time at that age
2007-03-27 08:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by jcss_003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, as my understanding your best friend is in love with your boyfriend..well if this is the case I feel how can your best Friend be in love with you r boyfriend theres certain limits best friends cant pass and boyfriends and ex are off limited it doesn't matter if she love him you was with for 2 years how can she be in love with a guy you been with and she never been with...i feel your best friend over step her boundary and that the matter shouldn't be how to keep ur man and her best Friend its how can you trust ur best friend if she fell in love with your man? she's not a true friends , true friends would never do something like that and if u decided to get back with dude shw willing not to talk to you so let it be cuz if she let this guy get between y'all then she wasn't a friend from the beginning i feel do what ur heart say and not ur mind. Good Luck Girlie:)
2007-03-27 15:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by SnUggLes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lose a best friend over a guy you both like, because a friend will always be there to wacth your back or cheer you up but a guy will just flirt with you to make him like you even more. but if it was me i would forget the guy and stick with my b-friend.
2007-03-27 15:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends should NEVER date their friends ex (PERIOD!!) NEVER EVER. she i don't think that your friend is being fair to you at all. if you want you ex back then talk to him. your friend has no right to date your ex...
she doesn't appear to be a good friend at the moment~ tell her that he if your ex and that you want him back and since you've together for 2 years you have every right to ask him to take you back..
2007-03-27 15:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems as if your best friend talked you into braking up with your bf with second intentions. You got your bf first not her, its nnot something you should feel compelled to share. If he still likes you and you like him get back toghether. besides does your ex even like your best friend? think about it
2007-03-27 15:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel your best friend he is your and that she should take a hike.
2007-03-27 15:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by zara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ask the man what he wants.... his judgement is also imp!
2007-03-27 15:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by niks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋