2007-03-27 08:27:48 · 25 answers · asked by stormc2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I mean to lust for someone other than your spouse. I keep thinking that the answer to this question is the reason why divorce happens so much. I tend to think that most people think even "just a little lusting" isn't bad, which for some, can be the beginning of trouble.
2007-03-27 08:35:47 · update #1
It's human nature, we all do it on some level, it's how you handle it that matters, which leads to how socially acceptable/unacceptable it will be. You cheat, and you'll be an outcast, I think!
2007-03-27 08:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control how you feel. You may feel an attraction to someone of the opposite sex after marriage. What you can control is what you do about it, how you react to it. In other words, don't speak about what you are thinking; look, but don't touch.
If the desire to have other women is that strong, you should never have gotten married. Tell your wife right away about your feelings and then do the honorable thing. Free her up to find a loving, devoted, loyal partner.
2007-03-27 08:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people lust in their own hearts. Women watch TV and drool over the star of some TV show. It's normal.
2007-03-27 08:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. As long as you lust for your spouse.
2007-03-27 08:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your question references a query approximately 13-sixteen 365 days olds having intercourse. i do no longer think of every physique could make a stable case for a 13 yo having intercourse. i think of that is mush extra healthy for 13-15 yo teenagers to take it sluggish and persist with intercourse play. yet a sixteen 365 days previous? however brief a time in the past because of the fact the 50's, it became taken with no attention that folk might marry and so become sexually energetic whilst they complete extreme college, in many situations around the age of 17 or 18. in the event that they verify they won't have babies, i do no longer quite see why somebody ought to merchandise to (a minimum of the a number of extra mature) sixteen 365 days olds having intercourse. that is a controversy of biology quite. My mom's technology, the first age of onset of menstruation became 14. I have been given my era whilst i became 10 and became pregnable whilst i became 11. at the instant's youngster's our bodies mature till now than even one technology in the past. Do you fairly think of that a guy or woman with an person physique and a teenager's ideas is going to be able to stand up to the hormonal urges for 7 YEARS, till they attain 18? that's no longer smart or very conceivable. i think of youthful youngsters ought to take transport of strategies to discover their sexuality effectively, secure the two bodily and emotionally.
2016-12-15 10:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Socially acceptable? Sadly yes. But it is very wrong...once lust is committed in your heart and mind it is just as adultry
2007-03-27 08:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, as long as it's your spouse you're lusting after.
2007-03-27 08:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Crash 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can think someone is attractive. Lusting to the point of obsessing,that`s wrong.
2007-03-27 08:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can window shop but not buy! I think lust is normal for everyone.
2007-03-27 08:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by *jA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't help looking you'd have to be dead! But to do more than that is not acceptable and will lead you down the path toward the divorce court
2007-03-27 08:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋