If not what are your suggestions on saying no without offending them?
2007-03-27 08:25:30 · 9 answers · asked by KitKat 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
* NO , i say no eg. if they ask me to lend them money i say sorry im broke *
2007-03-27 08:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to then found I was saying yes a lot more than I wanted to. Now I just say no, I need to take care of this or that. Or even saying that you are not in the mood is fine.People understand!
2007-03-27 15:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by yo momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes a lot to my friends like doing them little favors and stuff but if they keep doing it say no I'm not your slave or something and I'm sure if theyre true friends they wouldn't care if you said no once in a while.
2007-03-27 15:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by stacie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... at times.. but i never felt tooken advantage of.
You dont have to do anything for anyone and u dont owe them anything so stop trying to plz everyone because they might not be there for you when you need something.
It's only ok to make favors for people if you really want to help them.
2007-03-27 15:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by snap242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I always say yes to my friends. Like my friend owes me forty dollars. It just keeps getting bigger. I can't help to be nice to my friends as long as they pay me back. But sometimes when they ask me for money I just say I only have enough for me!!!
2007-03-27 15:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard it said before, don't lend your money to your friends, as you will lose them both. Just tell them they need to learn to stand on their own two feet and you won't always be there for them.
2007-03-27 15:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
used to. i just stopped. not sure if i offended them or not. they didnt seem to care when they were walking all over me so why should i care if i offend them...right?
2007-03-27 15:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Stuff that tell them no unless u want them to walk all over u.
2007-03-30 19:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the time.
is it ever returned? no.
no one ever says yes to me.
2007-03-27 16:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋