why are parents nags?

Question

my mom is a total b**** cause she is always telling me to do the larndry,make ,dinner, clean, the house, and clean my room,

Answer 1

Maybe she is just trying make you become responsible. You'll actually thank her one day.

Answer 2

You are obviously old enough to be a contributing part of the home that you live in; the family that you share your home with. It seems like nagging because it's a constant reminder of the chores that you don't seem to think that you need to do. Your home is not a hotel. Your mother is not your servant. You share this home with her and you should willingly share the responsibilities the best that you can.

Do the chores the first time she asks and there will be no need to nag. If she reminds you even after you have finished a certain chore, gently show her that it's already done.

You may feel that you are doing all the work, so ask your mother to make a list of all the chores that need to be done and equally share them with her or with everyone who lives in the house.

Answer 3

I think if you were laying on your death bed you would think your mother was a total B****, you'll probably give anything to hear her tell you to do the laundry, make dinner, clean the house, and clean your room. Stop behaving like a brat or just move out. One day your going to have children, so take this opportunity to learn from this experience. That's all life is, an experience. Its not meant for you to go around hating someone who totally trying to help you.

FYI
when you call someone out, your really calling yourself (total B****) out.

Answer 4

Listen to yourself! This is your mom you are talking about. She is just trying to teach you the lessons you need to know for life. Some kids don't have parents like that and they are total messes when they grow up, they arent responsible and can't take care of themselves. Parents "nag" because they love you and are trying to raise you right! You will be a "nag" one day.... so have some respect for your parents and just do what they ask without them having to "nag" you until you do it.

Answer 5

We nag because we care. Don't call your mother a ******, that's so uncool. One day you will look back and thank her for her nagging. And what's more, when you get older have kids, you'll find that you turn phrases that she used to say, you'll begin to "nag" your kids the way she did you, but then you'll understand why. She loves you and wants what's best for you. Being a mom is a hard job, so why not cut the old lady some slack.

Answer 6

Maybe if you were to make yourself a schedule of the things you already know you need to do (laundry, dinner, cleaning) and help the family without having to be asked to do it, you wouldn't feel like someone had to nag you. It would probably make her ecstatic too. Since you contribute to making the mess and to eating dinner, it's only fair that you contribute to cleaning the mess and making the food too.

Answer 7

Because if we weren't total nags we wouldn't really care what you did, and how your future is. We nag for you to take responsibility and to show it, if you show it all on your own then there really wouldn't be a need to nag you. Most parents want their kids to be positive, productive, honest, happy adults. If we don't give you the tools to deal with having to be told what to do and when to do it, how will you function in the real true work enviroment, and if you are going to run a business and be your own boss will you allow your workers to do what they want yet pay them anyway?

Answer 8

They are right you should be helping out. You live there too,and you will learn soon enough how hard it is to take care of yourself as well as a family then to have to work on top of it all. Though maybe you should do this stuff before she has to tell you to and she will back off. She gets just as tired of telling you to do it as you do of hearing it. Give that some thought and give ol-Mom a break. She loves you and she needs your help.

Answer 9

Because when you are out in the world and perhaps are working a job to make a living, your boss will be telling you to do lots and lots of things. Your parents are trying to teach you responsibility and accountability.

Trust me. Some day you will wish all you had to do was household chores. Enjoy the simplicity while you can.

Answer 10

She loves you and wants to teach you responsibility. My son has a list of chores to do and consequences to face if he blows them off, but when he's out on his own, he'll know how to take care of himself...and he'll be better able to deal with the monotonous areas of life. Life is filled with stuff you might not enjoy doing but that must be done - cooking, cleaning, laundry, work lol. If your mom did everything for you then when you eventually move out you'd be horribly unprepared for taking care of yourself. And unfortunately, take-out, cooks and maids are expensive.
I'm sure there's a long list of stuff you'd much rather be doing, but take it from someone who's been there, you'll be glad that you know how to do all that stuff when you're on your own. And if you keep on top of it, most of your chores won't take too much time out of your day. Except for cooking and dishes, most of it's just maintaining what's already been done.

Answer 11

You poor baby, w-a-a, w-a-a! Maybe she would like to you be able to care for yourself, be independent. Does it hurt you somewhere to wash dishes, or open the washer and dryer to put clothes in and take them out!! God forbid, how do you handle vacuuming?? That must be very painful, plus taking up a little bit of time. From one mother bi*** to your mother bi***,. Do you even imagine how lucky you are to have food when you're hungry, clean clothes, a house that you can clean?? Millions of people aren't that lucky! Sorry, but such talk from a child is out of order.