2007-03-27 08:19:25 · 32 answers · asked by xyz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you were only married for a few years and it could of been before the marriage.
2007-03-27 08:26:54 · update #1
This is really weird because me and my bro in laws were talking about this yesterday. This is what i said. If he wasnt the type to sleep around and he just accidently got it from a serious relationship and just found out and told me then I would stay with him. chances are you probably already have it so divorce wouldnt do anything but make matters worse. now if he got it from when you were married with him then kick his *** to the curb.
2007-03-27 08:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lexi's mommy had twins! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would stay with my husband. That's what condoms are for. I can't stop loving someone because of illness and if we are married I made a vow to love him in sickness and in health.
Now I would be upset that he didn't tell before marriage to protect me and give me the choice. There is only one std that doesn't show immediately so he would've known.
2007-03-27 09:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No for the fact that if he my spouse had a STD and I did not that would mean he caught it, generally speaking, from cheating. And not only that but personally I would not want to walk around day by day carrying around an STD that will never go away.
2007-03-27 08:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the STD first? And is it possible that he had it b4 you got married? I'm confused? If you have been married to him for a few years, then you have had unprotected sex with him...right? Did he just find out he had the STD? You must be leaving part of the story out cause I feel like I'm missing part of this story.
2007-03-27 08:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by mare122870 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they told you that they have an std? well if you do not have it then obviously they were cheating on you...how long have you been married??? could this std have happened before marriage??? if not and it happened after the marriage, then that is a huge decision for you....IF you do decide to stay with them then I would make it VERY clear that you are NOT going to put up with this ever happening again period....next time it could be aids for petes sake and then they endanger your very life!!!! best wishes to you
2007-03-27 08:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you need to be tested.....if you have the STD as well.....then you might as well stay in the marriage, so that it is not spread any further.....If you love him and are clean of the STD, and you are certain that it did not come from cheating on you.....then you could stay, and just practice really safe sex. But if he is just finding out that he has this disease, then it could be years b4 you know yourself.
2007-03-27 08:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife of 10 years tells me she has an STD, I would wonder where she got it?????? If she got it having an affair, we would have more problems than the STD! ! !
BUT hypothetically speaking if my wife found out she has an STD that she contracted before our 10 year marriage began, YES I would stay with her! (but I don't think STD's lay dormant for 10 years)
2007-03-27 08:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i've got been working in direction of abstinence ever for the reason that i grow to be born, so i do no longer ought to rigidity approximately that. And, neither of my mothers and dads have HIV/AIDS. If I did choose for that form of a existence-form and take place to have a STD, sure, i might tell my better half.
2016-10-20 01:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how much it will affect your lives and what can be done to deal with it. The first thing I would do is have myself tested and treated if necessary. Then I would get as much information from the doctors as possible regarding how this will affect our lives, possibility of problems in pregnancy, etc., and discuss with my spouse how we want to deal with it. Good luck to you and God Bless.
2007-03-27 08:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well now its too late to run and he married you so you wouldnt but thats really your choice i wouldnt want to be with someone with herpes oouuww I could contract it my sister has a friend with that and trust she has a hard time keeping men around after its in the open
Marriage: Well how much do you love the man?
Personally I'd run and run fast but you your married sister!
2007-03-27 08:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋