k, i like a guy. Cody. and he broke up w/ his ex 1mo. ago. they went out for 4 yrs. i REALLY like him. and i asked him if he liked me, he said "as a friend." well, i wasnt satisfied w/ that answer cuz it's SO obvious that he likes me! he's always lookin at me and he always seems like he wants ta say somethin 2 me. well, i had a friend, vee, talk to him 4 me. (conversation) (vee- talia really likes you! alot! do you like her? cuz if you dont, u need 2 stop leadin her on. (cody- she's awesome! but im not over my ex yet and i need some time. (vee- yeah, she knows that. would you ever give her a chance? (cody- (dont remember the exact words...but it was along the lines of yes). now, what do you think? do you think i gotta chance w/ him?
k, i got like 240 characters left, so im just gonna say how much i like him. GOD I LIKE HIM SOOO MUCH! if yall could just see him, he's so hot and yall'd fall in love w/ him too! he's awesome! k, im weird, i know...but hey, there's nobody like me!! ADVICE?
2007-03-27 07:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK first of all GROW UP!! Second of all quit being a vulture on a dead carcass. After 4 years of being with someone he is going to need some time to get his life back into perspective. Being financial, social and emotional traits that aren't the norm anymore. His life is different right now and JUMPING into a relationship just to have someone isn't priority number one on his list. He has to find out who he is first of all and then what he likes. Give a little space and possibly be a friend. Hang out once and awhile, DON'T SMOTHER----it will only push him away or maybe worse....the wrong type of relationship you want.
2007-03-27 09:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by hawkeefan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=4 yrs is a long time to date someone. You need to let him make the first move. That is the only way you are going to know when he is ready. Until then, just be his friend. Flirt a little, but not to much. And DON'T keep bugging him about when he is ready to date. It could be tomorrow, it could be 6 months from now. But if you think he is worth it, then it will be worth the wait. Good Luck!!
2007-03-27 08:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... 4 years is a long time. just because they broke up does not mean hes over it yet and that may be the same for the ex. take it slow.. i mean if he really likes you then he will come around. in the mean time if you want to be the rebound go for it. just test the waters and have fun. you dont want to get yourself hurt in the process. you know your relationship w/ him better than anyone else. i have someone i really like.. crazy for this guy... i pretty much feel the same way you do...but you gotta keep it coo girl!!! let me know how it goes-good luck..
2007-03-27 08:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by melc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in contact but keep your self occupied.
I would appreciate being his friend if I were you.
I married my best friend.
I am sure just knowing you care about him is comforting to someone that has just broke up. Find ways to show him you care about his feelings. Notes flowers candy any way you would want to be treated if you were suffering a great loss.
Remember he may develop such deep feeling for you even if he feels terrible now.
When your grieving a loss you can not picture a future with anyone else.
2007-03-27 08:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by granny_sp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, wheres the fire hose,loll. You must take your time with him. Don't rush into the relationship. Start off exchanging phone numbers and talk for awhile, remember not to bring up any old relationships, this will bring back those memories that person put away in a rocketship to Neptune. Then let it gratually grow from there.
2007-03-27 08:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by ralph30year 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do U now its so obvious. Stop talking to the 3rd party and tell him whats up. Thats me and the girl i like ur taling about. I now its hard the girl i like just left this afternoon, but u allways have to remember that the true truth hurts sometimes, but that is a part of life.. history is made up of millions of lives but urs is the only life that can change ur own history
2007-03-27 08:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by paul c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any suggestion the best way to reply your query. India is an overly various nation and has many racial and ethnic corporations. So you cant generalize. Only the continent of Africa exceeds the linguistic, genetic and cultural range of the country of India. I have had a couple of Indian peers. Some are satisfactory men and women. Some are wankers. Depends on who you meet.
2016-09-05 17:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a chance, but you need to back off of him while he's getting over the last relationship and just be there for him as a friend for now.
2007-03-27 08:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to think, he just broke up with his girlfriend and that he said that hes not over his ex and that you know that he likes you, thats a good thing but you have to give him time to get over her because if not and he jump in arelationship with you, you have to ask yourself this question, what if the ex comes back into the picture and want to get back in a relaltionship again and hes not over her. you would be hurt because he break up with you for her again. you not weird i been there and done it .and some times i feel like that you just have to think about stuff and ask yourself questions hope you the best
2007-03-27 08:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by Angie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen..if someone says they like you as a friend then that is all..period...you wanting more won't change his feelings for you....no one can change his feelings.....he would tell you if he wants you for a girlfriend...MOVE ON! Do you really want someone that doesn't want you?
2007-03-27 08:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋