i have 2 friends that never call me il call them and they never call me back and when i call them they never answer i only have 1 friend now and i really liked them please give me an answer
2007-03-27 07:53:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They oviously don't care, leave them... talk to me instead :)
2007-03-27 08:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has atleast one friend in there life, but also has people that don't care very much for them. It has nothing against you, but there are weird, and mixed people in this world. Not saying that your friends are crazy, I think it's time you went out and met some new people.
you need to recognize and be thankful who those who do care, not those who don't.
Don't waste energy on people like that. If they couldn't give a crap, why try?
I've had many times like this myself, i'm am still going through your stage actually. You don't have to ignore your friends, just be
be willing to let other people get to know you better.It doesn't matter how much friends you have, as long as you have atleast someone you can go to when you need it.
Maybe sign up for different classes, afterschool programs, sleepovers, talk to people, trust me you'll meet someone, you
just have to hope, and be willing to take a chance, and let your fine beauty shine in this world, don't be a turtle in a shell, be a fierce and proud lion, keep your head high, and don't be afraid to give a laugh once in a while.
2007-03-27 14:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by All I need is you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is amazing I am going through this same thing right now! I have this cousin that we are really close,we share everything,we do everything together, and now she like a ghost. I have not spoken to her in about 2wks and we go through this thing sometimes where she calls me and then I dont hear from her until she is ready. I always call her and ask her whats wrong and this and that and end up having a pitty party. So we havent talk in 2wks to today and I have made up in my mind that I am not goig chasing after anyone to be my friend,so what I am saying to you doll. Dont worry about if friends come and go they will. You cant keep someone who doesnt want to be kept. If they are your true friends then they will come back, until then go on about your business, do what you do and dont worry about it. They will remember the good company that they had!
2007-03-27 15:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by xcage23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never have kept up with people from the past. I would appreciate if the called me. Even though I loose track of them.
Do you enjoy the conversation when you call?
If you do keep it up.
You may be playing a role in their lives even if they are very busy people.
2007-03-27 14:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by granny_sp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see if they really appreciate you... I mean, it's not nice that you're always calling them and they never call you back... in my case if it occurs more than 4 times I give up... they're people who don't know to appreciate a friend...
Cheer up!
2007-03-27 14:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by PX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they are not really your friends. Don't keep worrying about them. and no matter what people do to you never give up. there really are people who care for you. Just move on and try to find some new friends. TRUE friends!!!!!!
2007-03-27 15:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by angel k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh baby, you need to move on. these people aren't true friends. true friends show an interest. from what you described they don't have an interest in you. i understand this hurts and it's hard to get over especially if you feel there is more to your friendship then is truly there. move on. find other friends who deserve you as a person. because they more then likely don't have the guts to tell you to leave them alone.
2007-03-27 15:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like these friends are not very good friends. Keep your 1 friend, your better off.
2007-03-27 14:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking on the phone is one thing, but talking to them in person is another. You must start talking in person and hang out at a club or bar or restaurant to keep the relationship going.
2007-03-27 14:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by ralph30year 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if they don't answer or call you it should tell you just what kind of friends they are. Stick with the ones who actually care.
2007-03-27 14:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't necessarily say give up on them. there is always a reason that theyu are not calling you. maybe you can try going to see them and talk to them to their face instead of constantly calling them. maybe that is getting on their nerves. pray about it and ask God to get you back with your friends.
2007-03-27 14:58:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋