I am a "fortyish" divorcee with two kids, and after 15 years of marraige probably not that street smart with things like this. Because I have a larger than normal bustline (i'm NOT fat though), I have to go to specialty shops to buy bra's and be fitted properly. Recently I went to a private female entrepreneur who worked out of her house and specializes in large cup sizes (DDD and up). I arrived for my fitting and met a middle aged woman who seemed totally professional, although she did compliment my "assets" a few times, but nothing rude or offensive. When it came time to remove my bra she seemed a little different, and "handled" me more than I'd been used to in previous fittings. She genuinely seemed to like my breasts. The part I need help with is this. Instead of being offended, I was aroused, to the point where it was very noticeable if you know what I mean (remember I was topless!). I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. Does this mean I'm bi?
2007-03-27 07:28:45 · 12 answers · asked by Kelly C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well your story made me a little wet - LOL
hun I think your curious - you should try it thou - trust me its fun. Woman know what to do and how to do it.
2007-03-27 08:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Leesa K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldn't be so quick to label yourself as bisexual. Like others have answered, I think u may be bi-curious. You havent actually had a sexual encounter with a woman yet, so u dont know if u truly enjoy it ot not. BUT it's safe to say that u defintiely aren't completely closed to the idea either. So i think u should do some personal exploring. Maybe start by coming to terms with yourself, with your thoughts & fantasies. See if u r aroused when thinking about women sexually. If yes, then mabye try an encounter or 2. (safely) If u do like it....there's your answer!!!
2007-03-27 14:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, keep in mind a lot of things can do that. We aren't hard-wired to only be aroused by a man. Maybe it's something that you should think about if psychologically, you were aroused, but physical arousal can be caused by many things.
2007-03-27 16:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by lotusmoon01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it just means that you enjoyed what was happening to you. You were caught up in the moment. Maybe you do like women but maybe it was just a one time thing. Don't worry about the labels, just look at as a fun experience.
2007-03-27 14:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Justin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you enjoyed the attention doesn't mean you're a lesbian. But sounds like you are a bit curious though.
2007-03-27 14:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by curiousnktown 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try it, be curious, explore more of yourself
Ive been with my girlfriend for going on 5yrs we are very much in love and happy, we are trying to buy a house together with our daughter and 3 dogs lol
2007-03-27 14:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by laura 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely curious.
2007-03-27 14:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah. Curious at most. Well until you act on it. Tripe Ds really? Damn.....
I won't be rude and ask for a picture.
2007-03-27 14:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I second Raynebow_Diva and am too lazy to basically retype what she typed.
2007-03-27 23:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should c u m to my shop for a fitting ;-)
-Jill
2007-03-27 16:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by jack_and_jill420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋