She doesn't seem to mind that I'm married. She is so understanding.
2007-03-27 07:14:56 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is of course, a joke. But I did forget the question. So I will ask one now. How hard is it to forgive someone who has cheated on you?
2007-03-27 07:29:37 · update #1
When I found out my ex cheated...after 22 years of marriage, I believed I would never be able to forgive him. Every situation is different and needs to be approached differently.
First, I loved the man to pieces, so I was willing to forgive him.
Secondly, keeping my family intact was the most important thing of all. It still smarts to this day when we have no more family occasions to enjoy together as a family)
Third, I was petrified of being on my own, the effort it would require from me even though I knew I could manage it.
If the same situation would happen again to me today, I would kick his a.ss to high heaven or better yet to hell!
As to your situation, you sir, are a greedy little oinker....hehe
2007-03-27 07:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extremely funny! At first I thought that the reason she couldn't get enough, was because you didn't have enough!
Since my divorce, I have had a great amount of freedom and happiness. I do not have a girlfriend in my life because I'm not willing to trade in the freedom I enjoy, for another whole set of "issues" that she may have to bring to the table. So, I have taken to traveling, mostly to overseas locations. The hassle is the cost is so much more to travel solo than as a couple, booking packages as a single nearly doubles the cost of the entire trip.
I have not been on a Cruise, because I have the feeling that it would be like being trapped in a large shopping mall, with lots of Buffett's. When I did inquire as to cruises for singles, or at least leaning toward mostly singles, the reply was that most of them are "extremely gay-friendly". I'm not interested in that part of the adventure.
Figuring that I'm 54y/o, and not a pediphile, I'd better look to women of a more appropriate age. They seem to have either pretty much had it with men, have been so abused in their relationship (financially, emotionally, physically, and spiritually) that they don't have much to offer, other than their cries for acceptance.
I'm not shallow, but I am ready to deal with women that have decided to grab life by the tools, and start enjoying their time on earth. Actually, the truth is that my only female friends are employees, fellow Democrat activists, or married, often they fall into several of these categories at once. I would have to say that if I made a list of the top ten choices of women in my life, nine would already be married, some becomming unmarried within a reasonable amount of time, which doesn't interest me, due to the emotional upheaval they will be experiencing.
I'd rather take off to points unknown, run across some people that I don't know, visit, drink, eat, laugh, see some sites, and possibly say good-bye in a beautiful, passionate way. Maybe several times.
Again, sorry for running on, but these questions get me to thinking, and you poor people are the recipients of my ramblings. I hope that none of this offends you people, if it does, please stop reading my comments, as I am almost always this sort of person. I do not swing from one extreme to another, which I find refreshing.
Ricky
2007-03-27 07:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by RICKY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very funny. An older lady once told me how happy she was when she got married because then she could have sex whenever she wanted. She said it was like having a license for sex. Sometimes it's hard to keep a straight face. I know some odd people. =)
Your question: I have no idea. I've read that it is more difficult for men to forgive unfaithful wives...reasoning is that men can have affairs and it's only about sex, but women don't usually betray the marriage unless they give their heart to someone new. Makes sense to me.
Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast.
Marlene Dietrich
2007-03-27 14:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anne Teak 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are cheating on your wife and the other woman doesn't mind it then she is a ho because no woman should get involved with a married man. I have been hurt by this twice. My husband cheated on me twice and the girls didn't seem to care that he was married and when he left me for them they really thought he was moving on with them but didn't know he was still sleeping with me. I don't think that any woman should get with a married man and vice versa because someone is going to get hurt.
2007-03-27 07:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO!!!! TOTALLY FUNNY! haha... I think its practically impossible to fully forgive someone for cheating. Cheating involves losing trust, faith, and a sense of togetherness between two people. If a person can forgive all that, and really truly still be happy, then I think that would be a miracle. I know I couldnt. Could you???
2007-03-27 07:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thx 4 2 pts.
2007-03-27 07:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is the same thing as lying. A cheater will steal your money, so watch out.
2007-03-27 07:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you guys like you are the scum of the earth and you give all guys a bad name. You're an idiot. BTW what is your question anyways? It would help if you used proper grammar and learned how to complete a sentence.
2007-03-27 07:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by wickedsoxf4n 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have sent your question to your wife. Soon you won't have to worry about getting sex at home and you can go back to your non-committal, selfish way of living.
2007-03-27 07:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chuckle head
2007-03-27 07:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋