I live in a small college town, going to school...and it seems like the gay life is not too active or interesting... I just want some answers... Serious answers only please
2007-03-27 07:05:52 · 13 answers · asked by millerdealer 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can email me we'll start as friends and see what happens. ijim@ptd.net
2007-03-27 07:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by kanei 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the question is. Are you having a difficult time meeting other gays? You say a "small college town;" perhaps it's too small. Perhaps you need to transfer to another school where there are more people, more places to go, more groups to mingle with that share your lifestyle. Then you might have a chance to meet that special someone. Being single can be lonely. I wish you luck.
2007-03-27 07:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ana Thema 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the worst place to meet people is through the internet. Honestly. Stop looking. Go hang with new people. Get going in hobbies you like. Do you. You will meet people along the way that are like you and you could date. It does not matter how big or small a place is. You just have to put yourself out there. You will meet someone when you least expect it and in the most surprising of places. It might work and it might not, but you have to try.
2007-03-27 07:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small towns are never good for dating, especially in the gay community. You just have to get out there and find any gay people there may be in your town. If you still have trouble maybe consider moving to a bigger city or something. Just get yourself out there and be yourself, someone will eventually come along.
2007-03-27 07:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you live in a small college town is a bit harsh to find another gay guy. Unless you use some gay site for seeking other gays like gaydar.co.uk or gay dating website etc.
So, I would suggest you to find some gays through gay websites (it really helps) or move to a big city somehow.
2007-03-27 07:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to get off the computer and get out there. I'm not saying goto gay bars but just network with people and make friends. Eventually one of those friends maybe more than just a friend.
2007-03-27 07:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are fishing in an empty pond. There is no way to fix that for you, we can't create a man for you. You have to wait it out until you get to a place where you are in contact with other gay mean. Until then workon your studies, yourself, make friends.....keep busy.
Make e-mail pen-pals....go visit other cities on breaks - visit St Louis and I will show you the town!
2007-03-27 07:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
being single is not all that bad, being alone is! i look in on Y!A to see what others are talking about and get ideas to solve some of my own problems. i'd like to say i rarely feel alone but that's not true. this place helps some. i hope it helps you too.
2007-03-27 07:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't we all? Maybe you should try social networking sites, like gay.com or gaydar.co.uk or your local networking sites, where you will find many gay people, and who knows, maybe someone out there has just been waiting for you :-)
2007-03-27 07:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throughout my life i have found that the only time you find someone is when you're not looking. try focusing more on school or other things and get your mind off of it. sooner or later someone will find you.
2007-03-27 07:17:31 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋