she has sex with him every few months. then he doesn't call for months. then he calls and they do it again. then he doesn't call. you get the idea.
2007-03-27 06:59:47 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe the girl has low self esteem, and maybe she is lonely. Before I met my husband, I was like that. I was so lonely and craved human contact so bad that I thought that was the only way I could be close to someone, even for just a little while. It is a vicious cycle, because you usually feel even worse after, but you just can't say no.
2007-03-27 07:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lulu 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're assuming she's "allowing herself to be used" -- how do you know she doesn't LIKE sex?
If she's waiting between calls for him to call and say he loves her, then she's just being a moron.
But a lot of women like a "just sex" relationship with a pleasant guy who's a good lay.
They don't have to deal with all the garbage of a relationship, and they get to have some nice sex once in a while.
2007-03-27 15:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Maybe she just wants sex too, no strings attached.
2. Maybe she's hoping that if she keeps making herself available to him, he'll eventually grow attached to her as a person.
3. Maybe her self-esteem is so low that any validation that she's wanted by someone, even just for sex when the guy she's having it with can't get anyone else, is better than no validation.
4. Maybe she's getting some remuneration or benefit from making herself available for sex and she's not telling anyone, because she doesn't want the whole world to know about it.
2007-03-27 07:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Karin C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason why a woman would allow to be used just for "sex" is because she is lonely, has no self worth, and she has no respect for herself. She is allowing this guy to use her because she feels that there is nobody else out there and she is accepting this kind of behavior. She will learn the hard way that this guy is just using her for a piece of booty every so often. Once she gets the dose of hard core reality, she will realize what she is doing and she will put a stop to this.
2007-03-27 07:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Most women have rellationships with sex being part of it. The women that have relationships with only sex are the women that do not want a relationship where they will get hurt in the long run. With a sexual relationship, they can have sex with anyone she pleases with "no strings attached".
2007-03-27 07:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by ralph30year 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cus some girls think that it is better to be used then to not have anyone
my sister is like this she dates crappy guys and although she doesn't sleep with them they still treat her like crap and use her as a arm charm
she has low self esteem and i think she has a little tiny bit of a problem with the way she thinks
alot of women that allow men to do this have had hard pasts
and they feel abandoned by there fathers so they will do anything to make the feeling stop even if its only for a few hours
2007-03-27 07:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree. everyone who assaults a pregnant woman and her toddler merits all they get. Any woman who's pregnant could clearly do regardless of is mandatory to guard their infant from harm. The boyfriend is to blame of the homicide of those 4 babies and its a shame he's not around to stand trial. She should not be condemned for what she did. comparable regulation additionally should practice to any woman - pregnant or not - who fights off a rapist/mugger or everyone else who could attempt to wreck her. in the united kingdom the regulation continuously seems to favour the criminal and the sufferer gets little sympathy, or so it style of feels. . .
2016-11-23 19:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously because that's the type of relationship she wants. If she is comfortable satisfying her physical needs from time to time and doesn't want something emotional that's just the way some people are. Does she date other guys inbetween?
2007-03-27 07:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each time she thinks if she's alittle bit better he'll stay around so he feeds her that line knowing he's just going to use her.She is thinking thats the best she she can do. But each time there together maybe it'll be fixed so she wont be embarresed.
2007-03-27 07:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever stopped to think this may be a relationship where the 'just for sex' is mutual? Many 'modern day' women have what is sometimes called a 'booty call' man....yes, just for sex....no entanglement....[men have been doing it for eons]
2007-03-27 07:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋