Why every single time we get in a agrument he calls me ugly like thats all he can say every single time. Does that mean he really thinks im ugly or what? Because im not ugly at all I don't get it? Why do you think thats the only thing he calls me when he mad?
2007-03-27 06:59:18 · 33 answers · asked by Kris24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want to say that he is saying it to push your buttons. A woman's beauty is always a sore spot. The fact that he says it every time you argue says a lot. It could be his way of shocking you into ending the discussion or... he is really trying to hurt you and your confidence.
Tell him how it makes you feel. If he makes a genuine effort to stop saying such hurtful things, then the rest should work itself out. If he doesn't take your feelings seriously, maybe you should consider counseling.
2007-03-27 07:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by kriskabob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to hear him call you 'ugly' then you two need to stop arguing like two immature adults. If you are not ugly, then don't let it bother you. Being called ugly has no comparison to other worse words he can use for you.
The best thing to do is avoid arguments and talk to each other with respect!
2007-03-27 07:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really? He tells you that your "ugly"? Madam....the reason he does that is because he's a jerk. nothing more...nothing less. Just an insensitive jerk.
My philosophy is that if he considers you "ugly' than you avoid him completely. When he grows weary of little to no converstaion, no sex, no affection and no being kind, considerate and loving to him then perhaps he'll realize his unforgivable and ignorant error of his moronic ways.
Good luck dear. Hey...at least your avatar is attractive.
2007-03-27 07:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not nice. He needs to learn to fight fair and not make personally degrading comments light that. I'd get someone to help you both straighten this out. He may not mean it but it sure is a repulsive thing to say to the women HE married.
2007-03-27 07:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing with your husband is an "ugly" thing to do. Maybe he means your behavior is ugly.
2007-03-27 07:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he as the IQ of a 10 year old!
2007-03-27 07:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really. Who did you marry. My gosh I would not stick around someone who says things like that to anybody, let alone me. You need to check yourself if you accept this. Another thing is why are you arguing? Partners discuss, not argue.
2007-03-27 07:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know why all the pretty girls end up with stupid guys who dont care about them while some of the good guys like me end up with snakes as wives ♣
2007-03-27 07:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by tim z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Janelle, he must think you are ugly. Maybe you can wear a mask to bed for fun.
2007-03-27 07:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes no sense to me as to why he calls you "ugly" yet he married you. Basically, you're married to a dipshit. You need to raise your standards and kick him to the curb. Real men don't call their wife names.
2007-03-27 07:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by Grampa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋