Okay its been happening for a while now... my friend keeps implying that i have no chance of getting an A for GCSE... Like the other day when we were all talking about what grades we want to get, my other mate goes i hope i get an A and i said the same then for some stupid reason she goes ''ohh i don't no about you'' i mean what kind of friend is that!?! ... and she implies to every one that ''people like me'' are unable to get A s. Today, when i got back my grade report she just had to make sure she saw what i got! She's always been implying things like this and just because I'm not in as many higher sets at school as her she feels i am not good what so ever! All of this has really put me down and how could someone think that! She is also very competitive and i have started to prove her wrong since i got As in 2 of my c/ws.
I have told her about this but for some reason i'm still getting really put down and annoyed and i don't understand why she does this! what do you think??
2007-03-27 06:47:22 · 6 answers · asked by Pureness =) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that she is not a very good friend to you at all! She keeps putting you down just because you did whatever you could to try and get a certain grade on your exams. Just because she takes higher classes than you, does NOT give her the right to put you down. She is NOT better than anybody else and she should know that. The best thing that you can do for yourself is to stop being her friend. You DO NOT deserve anybody that will put you down at anything you set your mind to do. Continue to be friends with the people who will support you at anything you do and not put you down. Keep in mind that there are people out there who are smarter than her and she will get what's coming to her. I hope my advice helps you. Best of luck and focus on getting good grades. Don't worry about what she thinks.
2007-03-27 07:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to p*ss off.
I'm doing GCSEs right now and either people don't give a toss what they get and just doss around or they are just so competitive and obsessive, wanting to get all straight A*s.
I wouldn't worry about this girl she's obviously a bit insecure about her own achievements so she's putting you down.
I had the same thing, this girl who i hang around with at school (who i don't actually like, long story) found out that i wanted to do French at A-level and i was predicted A*. So then she suddenly started trying really hard in all the tests just so she could beat me. But it didn't work :) Anyway she knows i'm crap at chemistry so she acts really patronizing telling me she's going to help me etc. which sounds kind but if you saw how she meant it you'd realise its not lol. So eventually she gave up trying to beat me and then she tried to copy my coursework. That didn't work either, cos i just gave it in. And now she's completely given up and she's now telling people that its stupid that i want to do so well and that i work too much and that i work instead of going out. Which is crap. And to top it off she calls me "Hermione" out of the Harry Potter films lol. And it doesn't help that i apparently look like her. Flattering, i think not.
So after that rambling, my point is that either way, this girl is going to put you down, she sounds that type of person.
Hmm, maybe we actually go to the same school because it definately sounds like a similar girl lol..
At the end of the day it's up to you to prove her wrong, and you seem to have made a fab start already.
Hope that helped and good luck :]
Xxx
If you want to talk you can email me xmmsx@hotmail.co.uk
2007-03-27 09:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Curiousity killed the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just dont be friends with people like that. she is just putting you down and there is no need for friends to do that to each other.
Talk to her about it and see what see has to say for her self.
2007-03-27 06:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she likes being on a pedestal, by putting you down it makes her feel superior. not much of a friend who does that! work hard studying for your exams for yourself, ignore her, she's really not worth your unhappiness over it
2007-03-27 10:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you but you are going to have to improve your writing skills,eg using capital " I"as in I got.Other than that be confident in your own ability.Good Luck.
2007-03-27 06:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ignore her & prove her wrong x
2007-03-27 07:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by xkayleepx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋