2007-03-27 06:22:14 · 30 answers · asked by Double A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Total and true love, usually it's easier for the woman to move and change careers. Men typically make more money and support the women. If he lives in Denver and I live in Virginia and he's a CEO and i'm a legal assistant, then i'm relocating. It's just what you do. If I was the ceo and he was the garbage man, he'd relocate. It's what is best for the relationship. You have to really be sure of something before you relocate though. It's tough.
2007-03-27 06:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Paradiddle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, it was the knowledge that my husband's career would be what allowed me to stay home, and raise our kids. We have moved four times for my husband's career, and each time, I have looked at it as an adventure. We have seen a lot of this country, met some great people, and have grown closer as a result of not always having family near by to run to with our problems. Now that our kids are in the middle of their school years, we are staying put, but I know this may not be our last stop, and that's o.k. with me.
2007-03-27 09:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hopefully moving to a new country soon to be near the man I love, but love isn't the only reason I want to go.
I will only go if I can work independently and contribute to the household.. I'm not blind, nor am I stupid.. I know relationships don't always work out however much we love someone.. so I plan to have money set aside for emergencies.
The thrill of adventure also comes into the move.. to live somewhere where you love someone and can share the adventure of being with him in a new country (for me) also draws me to go.
If you ask me we do try and make life complicated when it shouldn't be.. Yes I love the guy I'm going to be with.. and I want to be close to him. Economically it is better I move to be with him.. We have discussed him being with me here in my country but he has more to give up than I do.
I think anyone who is planning to move abroad to be with someone they love should take off the rose tinted glasses and have another motive to do it other than just being in love.. and always have an exit plan.. don't rely on your lover to support you.. be productive and contribute yourself.. plan.. and always have a plan B just in case love goes wrong.
2007-03-27 07:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Britlass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What motivates women to go the extra mile is true love. But are you willing to go the extra mile for that special woman?
2007-03-27 06:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Juya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I moved from England to Ireland for my now husband , moved hear 7 yrs ago , we use to visit each other all the time we met 12 yrs ago on holiday and went from there , i was in the airport one day i told Joe to go and not stay as i hate saying goodbyes ,anyway he was only gone 10 Min's when i rang him and said come back for me i just new there and then i was doing the right thing .I've been hear ever since .
the hardest part was leaving my family and friends behind but there not that far away and i visit them all the time .
and id do it all again .
2007-03-27 07:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
having a man who is humble and supportive. moving to a new country/city is generally quite unsettling, and a woman can feel quite insecure. If she knows the man is humble and cares about her and her feelings and wants to make her happy, she is secure in knowing he will always be there to catch her when she falls, especially during these hard times, (yea women love romance! - (though not when its desperate - when its confident AND laid back its SO sexy). also if he is humble and loving she knows he wont go cheating on her with some new city girl or foreign woman! so she can know wherever he is can become her home, and he is her stability she might be lacking.
2007-03-27 06:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I moved from Canada to Switzerland for my man. It was the hardest thing I have ever done, I still dont speak german fluently, and had to give up my job, and education for him.
I love him more then anything. And I cant explain why, its just a feeling I have.
2007-03-27 06:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did it. I moved from Colorado to Pennsylvania. i left my entire family and i hardly ever see them. It is tough but i love him more than anything. His entire family hates me and I have no friends but if I could go back I would do the same thing for him because I love him.
2007-03-27 08:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lexi's mommy had twins! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women with low self esteem will do anything for love, now if the relationship is a 50-50 thing that's different. The only time I'm going to do all these things if it's for me or my children.
2007-03-27 06:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by whocarez 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
belive it or not, i moved from wyoming (homestate) to texas (foreign land) and i love it here. i met my hubby online. it was really blind love. but everything about him was better than what i had. i mean my former life was prettty bad. i was motivated by love, and by a new start. i have this saying. "i go where he goes" you say this if your partner wants to move and better himself. you go where that partner needs to go. my husband wants me to go for my dreams, than i will. i know i have his support and he has mine. thats what love is, sometimes its sacrifice and change. but its a blessing in the end!
2007-03-27 06:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋