my friends always ask me my advice on things but im afriad that if i give them it and they di something that effects what i said that it'll be a bad ending
2007-03-27 06:05:33 · 12 answers · asked by franky b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
then they would learn not to ask u. just tell them ur opinion and if they take it or dont is up to them
2007-03-27 06:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"ADVICE" that is in nature. some may be able to give very practical ones while others give out their dreams and imaginations. to give good advice you should be a lot practised and experianced. you must think all the effects(good as well as bad) when you give a person an advice. you should make sure that it will not end up in a trouble. at beginning you have to think a lot but once you keep giving advices you will improve your ability and can give it on the spot no matter how complicated the problem. if anyone ask for an advice give it away but think vey well.
yyou will succeed.
best wishes
2007-03-27 13:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by papz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one, I always say "this is what i would do" then give them some advice. If your not sure what to say then be honest with them, no advice it better than bad advice. If your friends need information help them research it that way you'll both be better informed. I have had to do that before also. Advice always has the chance of going badly so its best to stay on sure ground, so you can be a good advice giver. Hope this helps.
2007-03-27 13:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is offer your opinion. That is all advice is anyway, an opinion. Ultimately, your friends have to decide what they should do about a situation. And if they are mature enough, they will understand that even though they ask your help, it is their decision on what to do, and if they follow your advice, they can't hold it against you if something goes wrong. And if you are afraid to give your advice at all, let them know. Tell them that you don't think you have any good advice on how to handle that situation.
2007-03-27 13:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley Neicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. If you feel like you have advice or an answer make sure you tell them. " I am not sure if this will work for you or even if the answer for what your looking for is correct." Everyone is in a sticky situation when someone comes for help. It has happened to me a few times. I always tell my friends to keep in mind that what I say might not end in the results you will like. Not everything works for everyone!
2007-03-27 13:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your friends trust your judgement. Always remember, when giving advise put yourself in their shoes and way out the options on both sides. Be honest.
If friends ask for advise that you have no clue about, be honest and let them know that you aren't comfortable with that situation. Then if something goes wrong, you won't be to blame.
2007-03-27 13:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes what you need to do is let them try and think of things on there own. you can't expect to help them all the while . sometimes you may not have the answer to every question.
2007-03-27 13:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by pretty mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the people thats asking you for advice just knows you are listening. dont just give them something out the air but just add on your experience and let them know your outcome. you can only give what you have. they might just want you to listen to them...
2007-03-27 13:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them what you just said to us, and you can also tell them about this really cool web site you found where you type in a question and a bunch of people read it and answer it in seconds this way she/he gets all sorts or different views. aka yahoo answers.
2007-03-27 13:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them to go with what is in their heart!!! Always works for me. And people realize that im right. So just go with your heart.
2007-03-27 13:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by monkeys_4_the_world 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋