i was born with kinda broad shoulders cause my mom was a swimmer but then i started to swim and there huge!!! i can'y help it no one wants to date me
2007-03-27 06:01:32 · 8 answers · asked by chocolatensports94 1 in Sports ➔ Swimming & Diving
this is such a familiar thing. I have been swimming competitively for over ten years and my fellow swimmers and I all have pretty bulky shoulders.
There is really nothing you can do to make your shoulders smaller. If you want them to appear smaller, try wearing sweaters with your tops and things that will mask your shoulders.
In the mean time, be proud of those things! Having big shoulders is something all swimmers should be proud of, as it demonstrates our power. Yes, only the worthy have them and they seem like a pain sometimes, but walk tall and confident. Boys will date you if they know you are comfortable with your shoulders and your body.
2007-03-27 09:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by chachacha345 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Check out some of the female swimming champions... Liesel Jones or Lizbeth Lentin for example... they have broad shoulders but who wouldn't want to date either of them? (see all the boys nodding yes and thinking "in a heart beat").
Get over it. People prefer to date other people who smile a lot cause they make them happy.... the highest paid fashion models all have broad shoulders, by the way, because it makes the clothes look like they do in the fashion sketches.... sexxy.
2007-03-27 15:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club! Having broad shoulders is no easy task, especially when it comes to dating. You'll find someone eventually who won't even notice, maybe in a few years. Until then, enjoy the cool things you can do with broad shoulders, like looking AMAZING in strapless tops and dresses! Also, hang out with the football players, they will be broader than you, no worries!
Love your shoudlers. They are a symbol of strength and in this case, pride in your bloodline since they are like your mom's!
Good luck!
2007-03-27 10:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kristy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's OK! Be proud of your shoulders! Think of it this way, you are most likely the strongest girl at your school! (I am a swimmer too. I know what it's like to have big shoulders)
2007-03-27 08:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by Karin S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, and it really is the rationalization why: She is in all likelihood loaded with botox which makes her unable to move a muscle that's her signature 'pout' She does that so as that the paparazzi won't be able to examine some thing from her expressions She keeps herself to herself- would not opt for to be out of personality for the paps
2016-12-02 21:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure the person you are dating has bigger shoulders than you, then you should be fine!
2007-03-27 07:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by ZyTyHy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will eventually find someone who loves you for who you are. Try other swimmers, they will understand.
2007-03-27 06:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Paradiddle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a boy and have sholders too i woldnt not date a girl if she was nice
2007-03-28 12:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Trevor B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋