i am a 14 year old girl and im scared, i thought me and my bf were careful, but now im scared! HELP!
2007-03-27 05:55:48 · 17 answers · asked by Bria Lynne 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am 14, and i have had my periods since i was 8
2007-03-27 06:01:18 · update #1
my bf is 17, and he used a condom, but it broke twice and then the last time we said forget it we werent gonna risk it, but i dont know how to tell him that im scared that i might be. so if anyone can help message me on yahoo IM xxdragonxskaterxx
2007-03-27 10:49:04 · update #2
Unfortunately you could be pregnant, but it also could be just stress causeing your period to be late. Buy a test (a good one, not the cheapest one), and check.
If you aren't pregnant then use this scare to be more careful in the future. Talk to your parents about getting on birth control...if you're too afraid to ask, then tell them you want it to help your cramps go away. Also, every time (and I mean EVERY time) make sure your boyfriend wears a condom...no exceptions..even if you get on birth control pills!!
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.
2007-03-27 06:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by War Veteran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of stressing over it you should get answers. Start with a home pregnancy test. If it shows that you are pregnant you should see your doctor as soon as possible. I'm not going to preach to you about how you should not be sexually active at your age because it sounds to me like it's little late for that now. If you are NOT pregnant, I hope this will be a wake up call though. At your age your cycles are easily not regular yet, and being late might not mean that you are pregnant. Again, there's no reason to ponder when for about $10 you can find out the answer for sure.
2007-03-27 13:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by mombat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean you are pregnant, it could mean you are very very young and your periods are not regular yet. Go get a test and take it to ease your mind. You thought you and your boyfriend were careful? Are you on birthcontrol? Did he wear a condom? If you answered no to either of those questions then you were not being careful.
I just saw your added info... periods since 8? You poor girl. I bet you are developed more than girls your age and that might have gotten you in the situation you are in. If you tell us your boyfriend is older then I will just die. Stop being a statistic....
2007-03-27 12:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 hein? You should probably know better at your age not to have unprotected sex. what we would need to know is how you are feeling and when your last period started. Most of the times stress can make you be late... Don't worry, it's going to be alright. If you are not pregnant, I hope you learned your lesson, but if you are.... Good luck with your decision.
2007-03-27 13:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by bubuane2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard aspect. browse over google or bing. that will might help!
2014-11-06 01:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could but you are still really young so therefore your cycle isn't regular yet. I would take a test, you also sound stressed that could be another reason why you are late. Hope the best for you.
2007-03-27 13:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.
Do u remember when was the first day of period (the last time u had)?
Go to parenting.com or parents.com, or you can just search for the ovulation or fertile days calculator.
and it will give you the days that you were fertile.
If it was on the 17.... yeah.... you might be !
2007-03-27 13:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by EnjoyR3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you silly silly girl,
Darling i think you very well could be pregnant.
Get a test done as soon as possible because if you are and you want to keep your baby then you need to be taking folic acid and dha to help your fetal (baby) develope properly and if you deciede you dont want a baby at this stage in your life then you need to deciede that as soon as possible.
If you are and you deciede to keep it dont listen to what people say about how hard it is and you wont cope because ive known people aged 134 have a baby and cope just fine.
Just remenber a baby is so presious
2007-03-27 13:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by xxsamxx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you are late there is a possiblity of being pregnant. Buy a pregnancy test from the store!!
2007-03-27 13:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by justliving 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you really do...tell your bf to buy a hpt. Sorry but you shouldn't be having sex at 14 anyway!!!!
Go talk to a counselor at school.
2007-03-27 13:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by LG 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋