if you wanted to socialise but have know one to go out with out feeling uncomfortable etc.?

Question

i like going out and doing thing but but the people i know dont go out much or have boyfriends ect. (it feels like hell will freeze over before they will do somthing.)
ive gone out to places by myself like plays, pubs, movies and festables but if you dont know anyone it horrable and uncomfortable. Also ive attracted to wrong sort of commpany because of it.(i had to get bar staff to call me a taxi and make a quick escape)

also i began thinking of people who dont go out because of fear of looking stuped of being alone.
todays world is not as socal anymore so how can single people or people in a new eniroment do for a night out without feeling uncomfortable and danger and meet people who want the same.

thanks thats a good suggestion ip_outcas..

Answer 1

Do you know what I've done recently to meet people - Dance classes! Yup, I know what you're thinking, but it's a great way to meet people - people who are in the same boat as you. So if you're interested do a search for Salsa or Google CEROC. Best of luck!

Answer 2

I made a lot of fiends when i started learning Salsa one year ago, they always pair you up with some other single where you obviously do some small talk while dancing and soon you end up knowing everybody there(but it was hard to step in there alone to begin with). And when you have gotten good you start going with the others to salsa party´s! Just an idea.

Answer 3

My advise is to start thinking of what it is that you really want and then visualize what it would be like. Forget about what you dislike or are afraid of, as this will only attract more of it.
The first thing I would do is to exchange hanging around bars for some English lessons. They actually can be fun and you will meet new people too. Enjoy.

Answer 4

Why don't you join a club or a society so you can meet people who have similar interests and make new friends this way? There are also sites on the internet for making new friends. Try www.gumtree.co.uk

Answer 5

Picking up a hobby is an awesome way to meet new people.... Join a sports team, learn how to dance, learn a musical instrument.... just go places where people flock

Answer 6

life is made up of lots of pain.and has a lot to do with people e-motions.and the healing from it only comes from knowing the truth and letting the healing to begin.there are people that are trap in e-motions and don't know what happen to them that got them there.like sex abuse,lies, e-motion abuse and so on.most people that had sex abuse go to sexual life styles to find comfort then all there really looking for is what was stolen.but they will never find it because perversion is controlling them and you can't control it from more perversion but the person must do the opposite of what is driving them into more e-motion sexual abuse.