I would like to leave my husband. I told him already that I want a divorce but he doesn't get it. I would like to frame him and make him look guilty of cheating so I don't look like the bad guy with our friends. Any ideas or suggestions?
2007-03-27 05:14:16 · 34 answers · asked by kelly_winters1982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Grow up. Divorce isn't a game. If you are leaving, get an atty, start proceedings and do it; or bite the bullet and get some councilling.
2007-03-27 05:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Excatly how would you frame someone to make it look like they are cheating? And, why? If you want a divorce, get one. Who cares what your friends think. If they look at you like you are a bad person, they aren't real good friends. Start the process of the divorce yourself by going to the courthouse and talking with one of the clerks. There you can get paperwork you need to file all the papers yourself and dont even need to talk to a lawyer. It will save you lots of money in the end, but you will probably have to give up alot of the material stuff that the two of you have accumulated. Thats how I did my divorce and it cost me about 300 dollars, and all my worldly possetions fit in the bed of a pickup truck. I was just grateful to get out of the marraige. good luck
2007-03-27 05:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real way to do this. Either way he will make you out to be the bad guy. After finally deciding enough was enough I seperated from my husband and lost a lot of friends because he made it seem like I was the one to break his heart when in fact it was the other way around. At first I was mad about the fact that even though these friends saw what he was doing to me they sided with him but after a while I just told myself I know what really happened and I dont need ppl like that in my life. Dont worry what other ppl think do what is going to make you happy. Good luck
2007-03-27 06:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to file a divorce if you know of his philandering ways (esp. if you have evidence) because you are his wife. Don't think of ways on how to make him look guilty in your friends' eyes. Accept the fact that there will be some friends who will be on his side because in the long run, the real persons concerned in this issue are him, you and your kids. Regarding the division of property and the custody of children (if you have), consult your divorce attorney.
2007-03-27 05:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Josette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing the mind games and trying to paint a different picture is going to make you look like the manipulative b---- and that's worse than a bad guy. Just coming out, serving him with papers and telling your friends that "It's just not working out" will suffice. Those people who are your friends will still be your friends. Those who aren't you shouldn't be broken up too much over.
2007-03-27 05:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already look like the bad guy i'm sure your friends know this so don't worry about your reputation just get a divorce.
2007-03-27 05:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to divorce him then just divorce him. Making him look like the bad guy will backfire and you will look worse in the end don't be immature just get it done and over with.
2007-03-27 06:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats with the "framing" thing? You keep asking this question when you should just be filing for divorce already!
2007-03-27 05:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have thought about what I would do if my husband cheated...
1. on his car write this man cheats on his wife..
2. Call his work and " accidently" say something about him cheating
3. Dont call himby his name call him cheater
4. make sure your kids know and his mother knows.
5. in divorce court the reason you are getting a divorce is for cheating. ( that is a public record anyone in the future can read it and it should ruin his love life)
6. post him on dontdatehimgirl.com and sent the link to everyone in your email address book.
Good luck
2007-03-27 05:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's up with all the drama??? If you want a divorce, then file for divorce. Apparently he doesn't feel the same way so why do you need to add more insult & injury to him? Just file for divorce and if your "friend" can't accept it at face value.....so what!
2007-03-27 05:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋