But he is married and you have a boyfriend?
2007-03-27 04:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
It's not that unusual - you spend 8+ hours/day with this person, you only see then when they are dressed up and smell nice and not when they roll out of bed with ratty hair. :) Authority is often very sexy and who is more authoritative than one's boss?
A crush is one thing, but an affair with a boss or co-worker is quite another - messy, boss may not reciprocate your affection, potentially lethal to your career, everyone in the office sees your emotional ups and downs, etc. Enjoy your crush, make your BF wear a tie to bed or whatever works for you - but do NOT cross the line with your boss.
2007-03-27 04:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep and he was married and I had a husband. I was his secretary and even now I do not type very well or very fast. Re the crush I think his wife knew as she was part owner of the business and I was 20 years their junior. I think he was impressed to have someone so much younger be so mesmerised but it came to nought. He had too much to lose and love is not enough if you could call it that ! Get a hobby and get a new boyfriend otherwise you could just cause people around you unnecessary pain and suffering for no good reason. Worse still you are causing yourself unnecessary stress when you should be concentrating on your job not your boss as this is where your future lies. Hindsight is a wonderful thing as I know what I should have done.
2007-03-27 04:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by njss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. A few years ago I did. We worked together and then she was my boss on a project we were doing. She was so hot. After that, she ended up getting a new job and I haven't seen her since. I guess it is just as well. It was a little distracting to work with her.
2007-03-27 04:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Samarama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushing your boss is very bad in the US (Unitied States of America 1st world). Causing any type of bodly indury on a boss could get you fired!
2007-03-27 04:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bill S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one rule of personal conduct you should be aware of is "Don't get your honey where you get your money."
If you have a crush on your married boss it is time for you to find another job.
2007-03-27 04:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by jim_elkins 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok .... ask your self ... HOW THIS relationship , if it develops , will workout consultation or finally end up ??? he's 30 and also you 19 ??? can it finally end up in you 2 getting married ??? how a lot is the prospect , evaluate and imagine about it realistically .... and if the marriage is counted out because of the age distinction , then the position could this relationship will lead you to ???? for sure to his mattress ... so if it really is what you make a decision from him ... go ahead , in the different case , concentration on your artwork
2016-12-02 21:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by sechler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Nothing can be as career ending either. Get a transfer or get over it fast. Even if you don't act on it co-workers pick-up on that kind of stuff and the rumor mill grinds overtime...not to mention pursuing it would be immoral.
2007-03-27 04:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am my own boss and i think im pretty hot ,so yes i have a crush on myself.
2007-03-27 04:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, the same case except i don't have a bf that time. i didn't do anything, obviously he does not have feeling for me and of course i didn't reveal to him. later i just found out that how wrong i was because he was married and i also found out that he actually is a jerk, i was just too blind to see that when i worked with him
2007-03-27 04:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by mp3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋