One of my best friends does not have a computer, but her sister has a MySpace page. This morning I was reading a survey filled out by her and found that she had made some pretty rotten comments about my friend (her older sister) Since she does not have the internet, she will more than likely never see the comments. Should I tell her what her sister said? They've not had the closest relationship over the last ten years.
2007-03-27 04:15:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just as an aside here, we have been friends for well over twenty years. We no longer live in the same state, and I do not wish to hurt her in any way. I don't generally pay her sister any mind, so it wouldn't be uncommon for me to have not seen this post, but knowing other people that know them both are seeing it...
2007-03-27 04:25:25 · update #1
Oh that is awful, I feel sorry for you friend, I would not tell her that, it would hurt her. You should tell the older sister how you feel about it and tell her the good points about your friend. Sometimes sisters, or even brothers do not get along, it's just sibling rivilary. Tell her how much you like your friend, and you don't like anyone badmouthing her.
2007-03-27 04:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by chez006 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't tell her. You will only get caught up in the middle. That's called being messy. They're sisters and I'm sure that one day they'll grow up and become closer. The only thing you should be worried about is being a best friend to her and trying your best to keep things away from her that will hurt her. That's what being a best friend is all about.
2007-03-27 11:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should evaluate what good would come from you telling your friend about what you saw on the internet. If it will just hurt your friend, don't tell her. If it will help her in some way, tell her. Also, when it comes to family, tread very lightly. Blood really is thicker than water even when the family is slightly dysfunctional.
2007-03-27 11:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u should tell her because if she finds out what her sister said and then she finds out that u knew and didn't tell her she could be very angry and might ruin a good friend relationship.
2007-03-27 11:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by country_chick_09 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if someone writes something about u on line 4 all 2 see, then by all means tell your friend what her sister has written about her
2007-03-27 11:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by mschesskey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you shouldn't. All that will do is start drama. I think you should talk to her lil sister about it. but dont tell the older girl that will cause alot of fights and it will be hard for ehr
2007-03-27 11:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
THAT IS A HARD ONE. I WOULD NOT. I WOULD TALK TO THE SISTER AND FIND OUT WHY SHE WOULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT. AND I WOULD TRY TO GET THEM CLOSER OR TO AT LEAST TALK. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-27 11:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DONT TELL HER. I SAY THAT BECAUSE THEN YOUR GOING TO BE PUT IN THE MIDDLE OF THINGS. IF YOU ALREADY ARENT. WORDS CAN HURT. I THINK YOU SHOULD TRY TO MEND THERE RELATIONSHIP. SINCE SHES MORE LIKELY NOT TO SEE IT THEN DONT MENTION IT. PEOPLE ARE GOING TO INTERNET RAP OT TALK. LET THEM. AS LONG AS THE THINGS ARENT TRY DONT TRIP.
2007-03-27 11:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mind your own business.
2007-03-27 11:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, I would like to know who is my friend and who is not.
2007-03-27 11:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋