We just had our 2nd child and since then my husband just has gotten more withdrawn and angry all the time. I have tried to tell him that it seems like he doesn;t want us around, he just brushes it off. I'm starting to feel lonely and dejected. I'm feel like us being here is a hassle to him.
2007-03-27 04:13:39 · 3 answers · asked by princess2423 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to sit down and tell your husband exactly how you feel.If you cannot communicate with him then your marriage is in serious trouble.Tell him what you just said here..Good Luck & Best Wishes.
2007-03-27 04:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you're husband is probably feeling exactly the same way but you've not really sat him down and asked, and that's probably because you've been busy! But it is supposed to be a team effort no?
Go talk to him more importantly listen to him take onboard what he's got to say and help him, then he will probably do the same for you! (or vice versa) Tell him how you feel etc...
2007-03-27 11:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't understand until they experience it themselves. I think you yourself should just give him his space and let him deal with his own issues. Focus on your children in the meantime. He needs to do some serious thinking. If you need to get a message across do it in a well thought out note for him to really think.
2007-03-27 11:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋