2007-03-27 04:08:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why does my husband watch porn instead of having sex with me .I often suggest watching it together im very open I ll do just about anything except bring someone else in.i myself am very active but i go to him not the internet .
2007-03-27 04:22:21 · update #1
why does my husband watch porn instead of having sex with me .I often suggest watching it together im very open I ll do just about anything except bring someone else in.i myself am very active but i go to him not the internet .
2007-03-27 04:22:36 · update #2
Why do you sit there and let your husband watch porn instead of have sex with him? The solution is figuratively in your hands, and you can also put it there literally.
2007-03-27 04:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's addicted to them, that's why. I'm afraid it's going to go downhill from here. Eventually, it's not going to be enough. He will start going to those strip bars, if he isn't already. He will be so excited to see live women that look like the ones he watch that he will fall into an affair. He can very easily end up as a sex addict.
IMO, you need to throw out the DVDs and tapes that have the porn on them. Good luck, because I know this isn't easy to deal with.
2007-03-27 07:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I divorced my husband for this. Nothing I could do would change things. We were trying to have a baby. Well that doesn't happen with just one person having sex with themselves. Get out while you can. I was told by a therapist the only thing that does help for this is Prozac. Men respond to treatment with Prozac for this. Weird.
2007-03-27 05:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Trina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, the only thing that comes to mind is that your husband rather see other girls doing the nasty. He might just be "bored" having sex with you and this is reason he watches other women doing it...Good luck.
2007-03-27 04:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have this problem. Have you told him how this bothers you? Try watching porn together.
2007-03-27 04:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by princess2423 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe we should make a porn for him to watch that would get you his attention.
2007-03-27 04:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is odd that having a couple of drinks & watching it with him
does not always result in sex between you...Very odd...
2007-03-27 04:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try spicying up your sex life. wear things use toys or lotions even watch them together. good luck
2007-03-27 06:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by iluvbarcelona2327 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i believe that if your husband is watching porn...hes one step away from looking for a mistress..he should want you and only you...and you shouldnt have it anyother way....or maybe your just that ugly....who knows
2007-03-27 04:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, have you talked to him and ask him why??? maybe the sex isn't all that great....watch porn with him to see what he likes and maybe you could learn. good luck!!!
2007-03-27 04:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋