2007-03-27 04:01:23 · 13 answers · asked by Shina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
trust takes time and must be won. be patient and don't do anything to break that trust. tell him you love him and would do anything to have his trust. that's what relationships are built on.
2007-03-27 04:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust doesn't just naturally happen between two people, even if they love each other. It takes work and if you've been hurt in the past, it can be especially difficult. Building trust takes time, you need to show your partner that you are trustworthy and that you trust them in return. If your partner has trouble trusting, you can do a lot to create an environment where trust can grow. Listen to your partner, respect him and his opinions, and accept him as he is. Reveal parts of your own history, show him that you trust him and you will help him to do the same. If you are vulnerable it helps your partner to feel that he is safe to be vulnerable as well.
Don't rush it. If you truly love your partner and want what's best for him, you'll wait. If you're in a relationship with someone you feel you can't trust, don't ignore it. If you have trouble trusting anyone, you might want to seek counseling before you run away from what could be a great relationship. Your past does affect your ability to trust. However, if trust hasn't been a problem for you in the past and your gut is telling you to protect yourself from this guy, take it as a warning. Take a close look at who he is, how he treats others and how he treats you. Your gut may be giving you good information.
2007-03-27 11:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by bibus75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you will ever fully regain his trust. If his trust is lost, it's probably because you lacked respect for him. Two very important words in a relationship: respect and trust.
Share your concerns with him. Talk it out. Keep the lines of communication open. Number one rule: Be honest with each other.
Good luck!
2007-03-27 11:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Smileypooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did something to make him stop trusting you, then the trust is just gone. You wont get it back.
2007-03-27 11:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very hard to gain a mans trust once he has been netrayeed, even if it wasnt by you. do your best to make him happy without changing your morals. Make it a point to remind him everyday that you love him and tell him how you honestly feel about him. I think men get just as insecure as women do and they think they hide it well but they dont. so just do your best to make him feel good about himself so he doesnt have to worry about how he measures up to other guys
2007-03-27 11:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is apologize from the bottom of your heart. Make sure it doesn't happen again. Be open and honest with him and hope that he forgives you. If he never forgives you, then why would you want to be with someone who has unforgiveness in their heart anyways? Because we all make mistakes, little one and big ones and we all need to be forgiven and we all need to forgive. That's what love is all about.
2007-03-27 11:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can earn back some of the trust, but you'll never earn back all of it. Don't be surprised if becomes angry and pays you back by breaking your trust in him.
2007-03-27 13:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant. Once trust is broken it never fully heals.
2007-03-27 11:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you did to make him distrust you.We can't give you an answer without the proper information.
2007-03-27 11:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you broke the trust! that means it cant be fixed! you hurt him all the way to his soul.
2007-03-27 11:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋