that you were not stalking them. My ex girlfriend is convinced that I was parked outside her house. Not only that, she thinks that because i was at the same Hockey game as her that I have been stalking her. I am not crazy and i never parked in front of her house. If i was to do that i would be at her back window.. lol jk. The hockey game is a total coincidence. She now never wants to talk to me and wants me out of her life. This wouldnt be so bad if i didnt have strong feelings for her. I tried to explain that Im not like that (and she should know that) but refuses to believe me or even listen to me. What can i do? Is any hope of ever talking to her again gone? please help
2007-03-27 03:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know i should just forget about her.. but i really care about her and it hurts
2007-03-27 03:57:42 · update #1
Ok the first step is to call her and tell her how you feel about her assuming that about you, tell her that you still have feelings for her but you would never stoop that low and that if she really wants you out of her life then she should stop assuming you are everywhere she goes . .I hope thins helps . .Good luck!
2007-03-27 04:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by sam_roxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has it in her head that you are stalking her, then by trying to talk to her and convince her otherwise would only make her think that she's right, lie low for awhile, theres nothing that you can do, leave her be, and in the future if you do see her around and if you do end up talking, just tell her that it hurt you....back then, for her to think of you that way...but leave it be for now.
2007-03-27 11:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by natc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go because it sounds like she's already accusing you of things you havent even done. She's already decided to cut you out of her life so let it be and move on because you don't want her taking out restraining orders on you for whatever. You can do better than some neurotic woman who's not dealing with things too good.
2007-03-27 10:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure you haven't been stalking her, then it sounds like one of two things with your girlfriend. One, she is looking for an excuse to find a way out. Two, she is paranoid. I'm sorry this is happening to you. :-)
2007-03-27 10:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is the crazy one. You need to try and move on, she isn't worth it.
2007-03-27 10:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knows youlove him so much and she loves you much as you do with her, surely she will come back, otherwise, it's very simple, she doesn't love you much as you do.
2007-03-27 10:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋