why do you always have to be assholes to the person in your life? Even when that person does EVERYTHING for you. I really just dont understand men anymore. I have never been with a man I didn't spoil. I dont think I deserve all the attitude and bull-sh*t that gets thrown at me. Why all the attitude? Did I spoil him too much and now I am going to regret it? It's like he expects it now and that is the only way he wants it. Help guys!!!
I hope this sh*t makes sense.
2007-03-27 03:48:12 · 8 answers · asked by KRAZEDnKONFUSED 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1st off I wasn't being rude. I was being serious. I don't mean it like it sounds when i say a**holes. I really mean mine is one. sry for offending.
2007-03-27 04:26:44 · update #1
sorry keep forgeting.....I just like to show my man he is appreciated. there is nothing wrong with that. Its just that i would like the same thing from him.
and i have said that to him..i am just trying to get male views on why HE is such an ******. People get real rude on here when there is no need.
2007-03-27 04:42:33 · update #2
I think you nailed it. You spoil him. Have you ever seen a spoiled child? What are they like? They expect everything thier way and if they dont get what they want they give you attitude.
One reply was he would loved to be spoiled. Well duh, we all would. But once we were we would be real *******.
You need to quit being so nice. Make those guys work for it a bit. They will appreciate you more.
Good luck.
2007-03-27 04:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by ragbagz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a red flag: "I have never been wih a man I didn't spoil."
Don't spoil men. Treat them as equals, and demand to be treated as an equal. When you lie down, some people will step on you. So, don't be a doormat -- stand up for yourself!
By the way, the way you ask this is highly insulting. Your header says, "For the guys only," so, since I'm a guy, I clicked on it. Then you call all men assholes. That's quite rude of you.
Given your tendency both to spoil men and to insult them, I'm guessing you are passive-aggressive. The cure for that is assertiveness. Assertiveness is a rather complex, but important, concept and relationship tool. You can read some excellent information about it at the site below.
2007-03-27 11:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimate, you need to be more selective with your choice of guys. You need to find one that will appreciate you for being yourself and all that you have to offer, one that will respect you and be considerate.
There truly are guys like that out there, you just have to look hard sometimes. Sometimes they're right in front of your eyes and you never noticed. Maybe they're not fashion models but are good guys that are kind, thoughtful, considerate and would really appreciate you and take care of you. The point is, you have to look and be a little selective.
In the meantime, give that current guy the heave-ho. He is a turd of a guy and always will be. Stop wasting your time with him.
Good luck!
2007-03-27 11:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are asshloes and Im not I got left bec she met a bad boy well I was working 2 jobs and she left her kid 2 thats 14 mo
2007-03-27 11:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by dirbe22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well imm josh,im a nice person n i dont bull **** girls because they are earths center.oh im only 13 but i know alot about lov n dat crap.any ways i dont bull girls because i wouldnt want a girl to do dat to me,n oh contrair i would spoil u.
2007-03-28 15:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by josh13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u made a wrong choice seek some magnetic guys lik me
2007-03-27 11:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Rockd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that maybe you pick the wrong guys! I would love to be spoiled!!!
2007-03-27 11:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are self-centered thoughtless A**holes.
You need to be more selective..
Try some older more mature men...
2007-03-27 11:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋