dominated..do men like to be dominated and if so why..or is just another myth?? do men have quirky kinky fetishes more so than women!..and why do they like been dominated so much
2007-03-27 03:44:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do you just mean the sex act itself? Because, if so, I don't think men would care one way or the other as long as they got what they wanted.
In terms of the relationship generally, however, I don't think most men would prefer to be dominated, unless they were the type who had been brought up by a dominant mother and a passive father, or perhaps, no father figure at all. There definitely are such men around, of course, who have been brought up without a strong male role model. They are the ones who might like to visit a dominatrix. In a way, they are playing the passive female role, and, probably subconsciously, seek out the dominant female types. They may be borderline homosexuals, or, secretly, wish they were females. Single mothers of boys,beware.
The other side of the same coin, however, is what makes women want to dominate men sexually, or otherwise. I am not sure that this kind of behaviour should be described as 'strong', when applied to a woman, because it seems to contradict nature somewhat. What I am saying, is that, women normally display strength in a different way to men.
2007-03-27 05:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Veritas 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yes, Its a real turn on when a women is agressive in bed........if nothing else, so that you can then dominate her afterwrds.
No women have just as many kinky fetishes as mmen in my experience.............and like to be dominated too!
I think the reason people like to be dominated is that it gives the feeling that the person really wants you soooooo much they just can't control themselves..............just a therory, who knows though......who cares!!!! :-D
2007-03-27 10:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by huvgj 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many, certainly, myself among them once in a while, but I would hardly say most, or even a large minority. You must also remember that there are just many women who like being dominated as men. As to why, there is no single answer, there are probably as many reasons for being into Dom/sub play as there are people doing it.
2007-03-27 11:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I wish I could be dominated sexually by a woman some day! it's like an orgasm :-)
2007-03-27 10:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Skynaut 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The idea of being "dominated" by anyone pisses me off. I hate having a boss, or anyone else in life telling me what to do. Definitely WOULDN'T be a sexual turn on. So, it can't be said that ALL men want to be dominated, because it certainly isn't the case for me. I don't want to dominate, nor be dominated. I just want equality. That's all. I think that's what most people want.......
2007-03-27 10:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
I have a dominant girlfriend in the bed room, which is great as she takes control and we do things which she likes which means she is always happy and I am happy as I sleep with a sexy nympho!
2007-03-27 10:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am not a man, but my common sense tells me that, men as well as women, have fantasies or fetishes as varied or as similar, or in other words, all tastes. They can not be grouped into one particular kind.
2007-03-27 11:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Honey, as far as I'm concerned women don't belong in the dungeon, they belong in the kitchen! Or the White House.
Sue me, I'm hungry. I need some protein.
2007-03-27 11:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I don't like anyone trying to dominate me anywhere, at anytime.
2007-03-27 10:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Errr no..... the other way around. Surely the man is supposed to be the dominant one.
2007-03-27 10:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by Buck Flair 4 · 2⤊ 5⤋