Im 15, and @ home Im in a lot of trouble. Please Help.?

Question

Stealing, lying, and stuff like that.

Answer 1

You'd be in trouble at my house too. Stealing, lying, etc...are all terrible things. Your parents need to ground you and help you stop doing this stuff. The older you get, the worse things you'll do if it is not stopped now.

Answer 2

Have you ever sat still, limited the things you do, kept calm, listened, paid attention, thought about what was told to you, considered what other people feel, etc.?
If you did those things, and kept quiet, absorbing the changes that all those things bring, a day, then perhaps 2, then perhaps 3 would pass without you stealing, lying, stuff like that.
It's called putting yourself on the right track.
It's what happens to people when they are in prison - they don't have much opportunity to do the things you listed. If they still can't learn to be quiet, think and absorb ideas about the boundaries of society, they still are criminals acting criminally among other criminals. Makes jail a wild, tough, dangerous place. But the world is safer for the rest of us.
Headed for Juvee? Sounds like it. If you can't drop the rebellious act, can't control yourself, it may be that you have a learning disability that keeps you from even catching a clue about how to proceed safely and successfully in this world. Ask your family doctor if there is testing and medication for you to get back on track. Maybe you don't have the attention span necessary to think out all the consequences of your actions.
Again, jail is a place where you have time to think about consequences even if you don't have a good attention span.
I'm serious - look into having yourself tested. You could end up not in jail but just plan dead. The fact that you're asking about that shows you care about yourself and your future. Your future is a long time period. Think about that too.

Answer 3

Make a list of the things you regret doing and then tell the people you've wronged that you are sorry and if there's a way to make it up to them, DO IT. The absolute best way to make it up is to stop doing those things. Do you do it because you want your own way regardless of the cost, or perhaps because you are angry at your parents or you get a thrill out of doing things you know are wrong? It would be a good idea to talk with an adult friend, pastor or guidance counselor at school about getting help. Once these things become habits, they're hard to break on your own. You're not only in trouble at home, you're in trouble for your future if you continue on this path! Get help and find a better way to live. If you are abusing alcohol or drugs, you may need a group like AA or NA (Narcotics Anonymous) to help. Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 4

if you don't want to get into that kind of trouble anymore start telling the truth, stop stealing, & stop all the other things that you are doing. start going in a different direction you are only 15 years old and you have the chance to change but only if you want to of course. anyways if you feel that you have to lie or steal think of all the consequences before doing those things, and say no i'm going to tell the truth and i'm not going to steal. cause think of it if you steal you are always going to feel guilty about about, and it also goes for lying.

Answer 5

Hon,

What kind of help are you looking for? Are you trying to change or are you trying to figure out how to continue to steal, lie, and 'stuff like that' without getting into trouble?

Is there no one in your life who tells you that you should do better? That doing wrong can lead to a future full of trouble you don't need? Did no one teach you to make the right choices, so you could avoid trouble?

Do you have anyone in your life to help you turn your life around? Someone you can be accountable to if you agree to do better? If you don't have anyone in your life like that, and you truly want to change, email me, and I will try to help.

I am not in your area, but if you want help (by help I mean help to change), I can try to be the one who holds you accountable for your actions.

Whether you email me or not, I hope you have or find someone to help you make better choices, and to encourage you that no matter what you have done, you can have a very successful future.

God bless you!
Hope this helps.

Answer 6

Why are you doing the things your are doing? Before you act, think what is going to be the result of your action...are there going to be positive or negative consequences. Has anything in your home life changed recently, divorce, moved locations, etc? How are you doing in school? Do you have friends you can talk to or maybe a teacher you trust. Are you trying to get someone's attention? Your 15 so you are probably going through a lot of changes, just think before you act and you will be fine. If needed, just put your face in a pillow and scream - or type out all your agression if you are angry, really helps.

Answer 7

what do you want us to do about it stop stealing and lying etc then your parents wont be so mad at you i cant help you and its not like you have to do those things im almost 14 and i never steal and dont lie alot

Answer 8

Ask your parents, or a teacher for help. You should try seeing a counselor to help sort your feelings out so that you can figure out why you are doing the things you are doing.

But don't worry to much, many people your age go through a phase where they act out and do and say bad things, it's a part of growing up and transitioning into adulthood, trying become more independent. But do try to improve the way you go about it.

Answer 9

RIGHT READ THIS!!!
im not going to bullshit you a load of crap but iv been through what your going through. do you reallly want to end up in prison?no you dont and i know how guitly you must feel at night you lay awake and feel so awful and you get the moist nasty feelin in your belly and you want to stop but you dont know how to stop? im not going to say its easy to stop but you need to put all yor will power in to stoping becase otherwise your going to end up on the streets with ur silly little m8s smoking weed when you could be at home doing whats right tell your parents you are sorry build therre trust up.
and if u carry on u r goin to b send away hunni if you ever want to talk my addy is [e-mail]
i hope u do the right thing xxxx

Answer 10

Think. If you're in a lot of trouble, it's because you deserve it and you know it. Are you bummed because you got caught or are you going to learn from this?

Mistakes are only worth making if you learn from them and don't repeat them.

It may take a lot of time to regain people's trust, but if you show yourself trustworthy, it should eventually happen.