and if i get my permit and im about to turn 16 in august then don't I have to wait a year with the permit before I get my license?
2007-03-27 03:27:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
NO!!!! hes not your dad,he's not even your step dad.... screw him. do whatever you want
2007-03-27 07:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what state you live in, but in NC you have to have your permit for a year before you can get your license. If your mom says you can't get your permit right now, you have to listen to her. If her boyfriend said that, ask her how she feels about it. My son is 16-1/2 and just now got his permit, so you have plenty of time.
2007-03-27 05:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a good reason for him saying no? Have you behaved responsibly at home and while out, meeting curfews, avoiding alcohol and drugs, resisting peer pressure, doing chores and in general following rules? As an adult who has seen many teens killed or permanently disabled because of foolish decisions made behind the wheel, I would also be concerned if you have not demonstrated the ability to make good decisions. Driving is not a RIGHT, it's a privilege that requires serious responsibility on the part of the driver. Teens believe they are adults but in truth, they don't yet think like adults. Granted, some adults think they're adults and they're not. Look at your own track record and if you've been responsible, talk to your mom and her boyfriend, show them that you ARE mature enough to drive safely, and maybe things will change. Sometimes the limits adults set aren't too be mean or controlling, they are to help keep you safe.
2007-03-27 04:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has the final say since she is your parent. She may take what her boyfriend has to say into consideration, depending on how serious they are. I'm not sure how long you have to hold you're permit before you can get your license. I got my permit on my 15th birthday. Then I got my license at 16, 1 month and 1 day. Not sure if it is still the same or not, it was about 15 years ago, ugh...Good luck and drive safely!! :-)
2007-03-27 03:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by punkin_eater26 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you does no longer have the money for... you're making a hundred and fifty a week from babysitting, taking 12 weeks off for affliction, trip, etc., that's $6,000 a year, and $18,000 over 3 years. the final infant expenditures $12,000 a year, without emergencies and larger expenditures. you nonetheless ought to purchase for your self. and there is babysitting for once you have a job. besides, in case you have slightly one at sixteen, what's going to you do approximately college? easily everyone provide you a foul call, your boyfriend will in all probability unload you, if he did no longer want the infant interior the 1st place. Wait until your married, do no longer make a extensive mistake.
2016-10-20 01:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by archuletta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mom. What does she think?
Has your mom been with this guy for a really long time, or is it serious like they might get married? If so, you might want to give him a little credit in decision making for you because it is obvious your mom wants him there to be a part of both of your lives. And it's always important to respect adults. Not always, but they usually have your best interest in mind.
But if your mom's bf is just another bf, then you really have no reason to pay him much mind when he tells you what to do. If he's not there with you and your family for the long haul, then his ideas of rules shouldn't make a difference.
2007-03-27 03:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by starlight_940 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it wrong for all you people to say don't listen you don't know if this child is responible or not or if they been together a long time or if the bf is paying the bills like car insurance with a immature 15 years old my step daughter is responible good student and when we put her on our insurance it went up 1,500 a year and she respect me and doesn't under any reason say i'm not her mother and i have 2 kids that not my husband i would never let them say anythinglike that we have 1 together also you need more detail before you say don't listen
2007-03-27 04:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by susan p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to listen to him and if you get your permit and youre under the age of 18, you have to keep a log of the times you drive, for how long, day or night, and you have to have a certain amount of driving hours after 6 months i believe of driving with a permit and a lisenced driver over the age of 18. if you get your permit and your moms boyfriend doesnt let you drive though, then you wont get any hours for your driving log and it'll take you alot longer to get your lisence.
2007-03-27 05:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by mrs.contreras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-27 08:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not unless he has some power over you, like some law power.
Get a book, it will tell how long you have to wait, what you have to do, ect.
2007-03-27 08:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Unknown. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only have to listen to your mother. my 9 yr old daughter lives with me and my boyfriend of 4 years and she has to respect my boyfriend but the final say comes down to me, her mother!!!
2007-03-27 06:27:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋