My Mom Hates me!?

Question

It seems like My mom hates Me and im always getting in her way!What should i do!

Answer 1

have a talk with her and open and honest talk. try to work it out and make sure you let he know(in the nicest way possible) what's bugging you and try to get the same from her... she's your mom, and if you can't talk to her then there is nothing anyone can do FOR you. but remember.. she changed your dipers when you were little... so if anyone deserves respect it's mom.. I'm sure she doesn't hate you though, it's probably something like a communication problem. moms and their sons don't always know how to comunicate with each other. so just be as open as possible and if you really want to work it out try giving her flowers and then saying "mom can we talk"

Answer 2

Hey I know how you feel! It always feels to me like my mom hates me too!!
And I can't trust her because she can't keep a secret. I can't talk to her about anything, so find a friend you can talk to about stuff. I know it's hard when you feel so hated.
I keep journals and write letters and stuff.
My mom never has time for me cuz she writes books and stuff. She has 5 other kids besides me and always gives the little ones attention but just pushes me aside. She doesn't like my boyfriend and I love him and I think she just wants us to break up sometimes, but I'm not going to - he is a wonderful guy!!
Just try ignoring her - don't talk to her unless she asks you a question... then she will see something is wrong with you and try talking.

Sorry for your problems, I don't any grand advice cuz My mom hasn't cared for me in years, but I do know how you're feeling and I'm sorry!!

Answer 3

No mom can hates this son. It seems to you that your mom can do this ! Ask yourself. Whats the wrong ? Ask her why she hate you.
your answer is not in Yahoo Answers. It is in your mind.
remenber your mothers contributions when you were Really Really very helpless.In your Chidhood .
Think positive.you can't hate her.
you are very much grateful to her.
what will you do in this situation ? when you become father.
have a happy life.

Answer 4

I'm sure your mom doesn't hate you. Maybe you could talk with her and tell her how you feel, give her an example of something she did that made you feel like you were in her way. She what she says. I'm sure she loves you and would feel bad if she knew how you feel. :)

Answer 5

Well, there's not enough info here to really understand your situation, but I'll give it a shot. Just talk to her about how you feel. I go through this often, but usually it's just me. :) Just ask your mom if you've done something wrong, and then express your feelings. Hopefully she'll listen. Good luck, m8!

Answer 6

Look,she doesn't hate you. She just wants the best for you and doesn't want to see in the wrong places. So,if she is being hard on you it's not because she hates you, it's because she loves. Just when she is mad at you just say to yourself,"she must REALLY care."

Answer 7

She probaly just has a lot going on try to help her some how but she does love you, or she wouldn't of had you and raised you. Just sit down and tell her how you feel or how she is making you feel i'm sure she is unaware of it.

Answer 8

Your mother is probley doing drugs or something that she is trying to hide and feels that the constant lack of space you give her is a load on her shoulder... INVESTIGATE I've seen it happen before.

Answer 9

Sweetheart,

Your mum doesn't hate you! She must be stressed or something, and maybe it seems that way.

Answer 10

Ask her if everything is alright and express your concerns.

She's your mom. She'll listen and talk to you about things.