I went to stay with my daughter in my ex-husband's house in another state. My ex-husband had moved due to job reasons.
My daughter is 14 years old and her grandmother was helping to take care of her.
Well, now I left and came back to the state where I live. I left while my daughter was at school.
My ex-husband, daughter and her grandmother are accusing me of "stealing" money and jewelry from the house. I did not take anything of theirs from the house.
My parents are saying that because of the way I left (behind their back), I have created bad feelings in my daughter and her grandmother's minds. They will have these feelings especially my child for the rest of my life. It is true that the relationship is now worse that before I went to stay with her.
They also claim that I hide and do not tell them things. They say that I need counseling which I am seeking. They feel that they went wrong in raising me??? I am an adult but my family life did not work.
2007-03-27 02:49:28 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Our reason for incarnating in the first place is to learn lessons. So messing up is simply part of the lessons that
we ourselves as souls choose to work with to evolve. All we can do is our best to learn and evolve,
righting and correcting mistakes (by not repeating them). Stop beating yourself up over this! You can't help
what others think, by being honest with yourself and with others, hopefully they will eventually realize the truth and see who you really are. If
they don't it is on them, because we all make mistakes and are here to learn from them. Your doing the right thing in getting counceling. Good for you. Love yourself and be proud
of who you are inspite of what other may wrongly think in judging you.
2007-03-27 03:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you did create hard feelings by sneaking out of your daughter's life like that. You're her mother. She's also a teenager-she needs you the most at this time in her life and all she's getting is instability. But get help and straighten up. Sit back and think of everything and analyze. Really, all you can do is prove to your daughter that you love her so much and that you are trying really hard to improve your life. Work on yourself and if I were you, I wouldn't get into another relationship with a man until you were stable and sure of your self. Luck.
2007-03-27 09:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,why is your daughter living with her Father and not you? Why did you sneak off while your child was in school? Sounds like you have something to hide. Your parents are right. The feelings you created over this will stay with your child for the rest of her life. You do need help and I am happy you are getting it. Your parents are not to blame for what you do. A parent can only do so much with raising you and once you grow up it is up to you to know right from wrong.
2007-03-27 10:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by silverfox13007 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe you should go back up there to make things right becuz my mom left like that and never came back till this year and its been two and you will not believe how much i hate her for not coming back to make things right
2007-03-27 10:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by heather a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did leave the wrong way but if you didn't do it just tell them and if they believe you good if not there is nothing you can do about it.
2007-03-27 09:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋