before he get married I had sex with him 3 times, after 15 yrs he came back said he need me,and not happily married, I was so stupid to believed him and with him for three years but just met with him about 7 times only but e-mail everyday,after he told me all his sex history , I got so sick of it and broken off with him, last week, I fund out from the e-mail we had before,but change the password,he e-mail intimately at his work place with a woman, they e-mail more then 15 time a day,and I know her e-mail address,should I tell her about him or just let her find out herself?
2007-03-27 02:37:48 · 27 answers · asked by m a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if she don't believe me, I can sent her the e-mail he had sent to me before, I still have them, never delete it yet.
2007-03-27 02:48:02 · update #1
tell her about him. He already hurted you, dont let her feel the same pain that you felt. She deserve to know. Picture it would you want her to tell you if it was you. You could stop somebody from getting hurt. Do the right thing and if she dont listen then that's her.
2007-03-27 02:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Fallin out of Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her the emails he sent you at the same time he was emailing her. Then try to get out of the situation and stay clear of him. He can do this sort of thing all he wants because you are letting him, his wife is letting him and so is this other girl... He's not having to face responsibility for his actions or dealing with any consequences at all.
Walk away.
2007-03-27 03:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it by your personal e-mail just yet. I would make a fake e-mail up and then send it. Tell her you are not going to reveile yourself b/c you don't want to make more mess. Then I would tell her and then leave it alone. She might email you back and you can tell her more but after that, get rid of your fake email address. Get rid of your thoughts and then get a message and relax...Your job is done
2007-03-27 02:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, she won't believe you and on the other hand. She will ask him about the two of you and he will turns things against you and make out to be the bad guy. After he had turn you down or broke off the past relationship.
2007-03-27 02:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad. I don't know why people can't be faithful. I have never cheated on a spouce or g/f. I have had many chances but never crossed those lines. Do people really need to feed their ego that much? I'm glad I'm not insecure.
2007-03-27 02:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are close with her, I would stay out of it. He would probably just tell her that you're a crazy stalker or something, and she'd just believe him because she does not want to believe the truth. I've seen it a hundred times.
2007-03-27 02:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Lucky♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you have not been asked. See I think you need to mind your business. Your business needs some major overhaul. Why you fell into a trap in the first place needs some attention.
http://www.predator-awareness.com
2007-03-27 02:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave it alone. You don't know this person and the more you make yourself unavailable to this guy the better. Just cut off all contact and don't look back. If its not her it'll be another and then another. Don't get caught up in his life. Just leave it.
2007-03-27 02:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let this woman find out for herself, just move on and dont worry about it we all make mistakes, hang out with your family and friends. forget this ever happened or learn from it and take it with you into the next relationship(what you learned) good luck.
2007-03-27 02:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by future journalist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is never ever mess with married men no matter what kind of reasons he give you.
2007-03-27 02:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋