dating 5months - got serious - and he decides to break up cause he had someone else on him minD- I said cool - and 2 weeks later I decided to date someone else i was interested in - he calls me, and starts calling me names, and when i said I loved him, says he does not... I ended that, and started talkin 2 him again, and he gets all shallow and sayin stuff again.... So i leave!!
he shifted countries for his job - calls me a few days later - He's met someone who he's been in love with for 4yrs and He is sorry abt the way i feel for him......
2 months later - gets back with me - 15 days later - gets to to tell him my deepest secret and then decides that I cant be with him cause of this - So i leave...
He flies back to country - 3 months later
begs for us to meet up - I dodged him the 15 days he was in town, and said NO!! not happening - However I wished him on his birthday.... He did not bother on mine!!
2007-03-27 02:24:00 · 15 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
contacted my ex after 3 months - after this
i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with a new women - Not the one he was in love with Last year - I gave it back to him, I gave him a piece of my mind - cause he put me through all this....
however I just don't know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
he was so rude,
My question is - I am feeling lost, and like i may never want another one of these things again - cause its devastating - however, I do need to move on - he's been playing with my feelings for 6 months - What do i do? whats your advice and opinions? help please - advice please..
2007-03-27 02:24:10 · update #1
He sounds like a big time selfish loser! You have allowed him to play with your feelings by allowing contact. I think you should get over him and not have any contact with him and move on. There is someone out there for you. Someone BETTER than him or any of the guys you have seen lately. Maybe you need to take relationships slower and be a bit more cautious. Think of yourself for once and realize you don't have to be in a relationship to be a whole, vibrant person! Good luck! Stay strong and enjoy life!
2007-03-27 02:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by AKA FrogButt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U said it girl and that must be yr strong motive: "He's playing with my feeling for 6 months"
I know how it feels. I met a guy who was playing with me for 8 and it is hard.
Move on, that's the only suggestion that I have for you.
Move on and have fun, make new friends, don't pick up the phone when u know it's him, do sent him any e-mails, be completely indifferent towards him, like he does not exist.
He's crazy and he doesn't know what he wants. For reasons unknown even to him he wants to send u to a lunatic house
Forget about him!!!!
2007-03-27 09:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by C.C. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer his calls or e-mails, don't even open the door if he knocks. He's hurting you because you keep allowing it. Most women have done this at one time or another to some degree, so you are not alone. He needs to know that you are *done* once and for all. And ask yourself, what did I learn from this? That will help you to move on.
2007-03-27 09:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by JenJen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there, I think you were attached to a crazy one, and you should have stopped this relation since a while, his patterns of acting with you is really sick and were very obvious to quite him! so, stay away from this bananas, and live your life as easy and normal as possible, you will find the reasonable man for you and never to wait for some one to change his temper or behaviour, men only change when they really love and nothing else can make them change so find the man who really loves you,, Good luck
2007-03-27 09:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Emad B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds emotionally unstable and unable to commit. I know it's hard to do and easy to say, but you need to get on with your life. Go out, meet new people, and do not answer the phone (or hang up) when he calls.
2007-03-27 09:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by munesliver 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on, girl!!!
All this back and forth would make me crazy.
Take some time off work and go on holiday ON YOUR OWN!!!
This will give you time to think and get back your self-respect!
It's obvious that you've lost that..
2007-03-27 09:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by amelie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you need to to do is forget him, don't talk to him or anything pretend that you don't even know him. He doesn't know who he loves from one minute to the next. find someone that is stable and knows what he wants and that will respect you for who you are good luck.
2007-03-27 09:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask us? I think you know what to do. Hes a jerk and gets off playing women. Get on with life and find a real man. Peace out..............
2007-03-27 09:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by amanandhislawnmower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's crazy, obviously. Just forget him. He has no place to live in a world like this. And in that kind of heart you have. (:
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2007-03-27 09:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a new guy?!
i've been in ur position(well maybe until now hehehhe)
first just friend and then boyfriend and then like brother and sister...
and when he told me he liked another girl i felt so sad even though i kept telling myself he just my brother not my boyfriend...
2007-03-27 09:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋