we're dating 5months - got serious - and he decides to break up cause he had someone else on him minD- I said cool - and 2 weeks later I decided to date someone else i was interested in - he calls me, and starts calling me names, and when i said I loved him, says he does not... I ended that, and started talkin 2 him again, and he gets all shallow and sayin stuff again.... So i leave!!
he shifted countries for his job - calls me a few days later - He's met someone who he's been in love with for 4yrs and He is sorry abt the way i feel for him......
2 months later - gets back with me - 15 days later - gets to to tell him my deepest secret and then decides that I cant be with him cause of this - So i leave...
He flies back to country - 3 months later
begs for us to meet up - I dodged him the 15 days he was in town, and said NO!! not happening - However I wished him on his birthday.... He did not bother on mine!!
2007-03-27 02:21:54 · 7 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
contacted my ex after 3 months - after this
i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with a new women - Not the one he was in love with Last year - I gave it back to him, I gave him a piece of my mind - cause he put me through all this....
however I just don't know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
he was so rude,
My question is - I am feeling lost, and like i may never want another one of these things again - cause its devastating - however, I do need to move on - he's been playing with my feelings for 6 months - What do i do? whats your advice and opinions? help please - advice please..
2007-03-27 02:24:31 · update #1
I had a relationship similar to this one it all started after we broke up and tried to remain friends, sometimes it just doesn't work. I Would suggest you cut all ties with this man and get on with your life he definitely doesn't sound worth it and you could do better. To be honest he sounds like a child first hes "in love" with this women then he "in love" with another women and comming running back to you, my bet is in a few months time he go running to another women that he is "in love" with (if it even takes him that long). Move on with your life and don't put up with any abuse from him. Enjoy being single for a while its sounds like you might need a bit of time to recover from this. And don't worry about future relationships just go with the flow i'm sure you won't come across another guy like him, and if you do you know how to deal with it just walk away from the start. Good luck hunny
2007-03-27 02:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as the different man or woman has replied, please let pass of this guy thoroughly. He has his own complications. he's attempting to regulate your emotions. For me, loving someone means that man or woman is in my heart for keeps. that's no longer a passing activity or some thing i visit go away down and then %. up back later. do not contact him and ignore about his advances. Take time for your self earlier searching for everybody else. You deserve love that heals and uplifts. good success.
2016-10-17 21:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong & never talk to him again! End it now before it's too late..i'm going through something similar but worst..and i hate it..it's driving me crazy! you should be strong & move on..you didn't do anything to desrve this he's just an a*s ho**!!..i don't know why guys do this to us..it's all Eve's fault:o)but be strong & move on..you deserve to be Happy & your way too good for that dumbass*e-mail me if you need support~
2007-03-27 02:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by liza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is highly dysfunctional. You need to be on your own, away from this person who makes you feel this way, and when you are stable again, find a man who is also stable. Do not invite any more losers into your life. You wasted enough time and energy on this loser.
2007-03-27 02:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am realy ashemed of my self. Aldough it is normal to change when you become a teenaer, my temper it is exactely like my phater and i realy hate that. I was SANGVINIC, since i've started dreming of things that i like, now i realy am so anoyng to others, i am now a flegmatic-melancolic. Peopla are used with me like this, if i start to tell a joke they look at me with a very bad look.
2007-03-27 03:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to cut the pain out...he will continue to dog you if you let him. It is time to ignore his presence on the planet and move on. You deserve better.
2007-03-27 02:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by AuntLala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a toxic person,move on and stay away from him.
2007-03-27 02:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋