I lost my best friend because of another friend.
I am very upset and I need help.
My other friends are always the type who plays and watches movies first before doing their homework.
But i'm the type who does homework before watching movies,shopping and stuff.
I had tried very hard to find a best friend and finally found one like me.And i lost it.
That other friend told my BF to lie to me.I realised that it happened alot of times.
I could not believe that my BF would lie to me.
I spent the day crying before i realised that crying won't solve the problem.
So i decided o come to Yahoo! answers to ask.
Please help me.
2007-03-27 02:19:09 · 9 answers · asked by Jazzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to the friend you lost. tell her the truth. if she really was that close she should believe u and yal can be friends again. it may take some time though and the trust will have to be rebuilt. but tlaking should help. it seems like she understood u before so she sould now. also talk to the friend who lied and ask her y she would do that. i am sorry that happened to u but i hope this will help somehow. keep me posted on the situation please.
2007-03-27 02:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Christina~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your a good girl doing the right things 1st. True friends will always support you, best friends and "others" can betray your secrets! Pick your friends and enemys wisely and follow your gut feelings about people! Be happy, play sports and focus on your education! When your older and have a great career, you life will be full of quality people and all the rest you quest!!
2007-03-27 09:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by gbear92038hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont cry and dont worry, they are not worth it and not true friends in the first place. As for your b/f if he can be brainwashed into believing what someone else says and lies to your face he's not worth your time, dont worry about it and dont get upset. True friends are hard to find, and you sound like a responsible and honest person, you will make new real friends in the future. Dont despair
2007-03-27 09:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by romerelax 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in this situation too. but when ur bf is aloneask her whether she is angry with u or ask her to talk to u again. if she is never alone, call to her or send an email. my bf and i communicate i this way now. and at school, do as if u r not bothered abouth her and just hang with other friends or make some friends. but u can enjoy with ur bf all the time behind the back of ur friend.
2007-03-27 09:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by samani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cry and you should stand up for yourself! go talk to ur best frd who u lose. Told her that i still wanna be frds with her and tell her whatever reason the other frd seprate u both. Talk to her bf abt it. Why would he lied because of other ppl? also, u just go straight up to the frd (not true one), n tell her that u don't wanna be frds with her and she is not the type of frds u want. good luck
2007-03-27 09:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by ting915 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget them and move on with your life and find some other guy to have a relationship and another friend to be friends with. Once a girl makes up her mind there is no sence on changing it unless you want to start fight.
2007-03-27 10:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by Maxamillon Pegasus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know the whole story or what she lied to you about. im not into the whole lying thing but shes your best friend so you should try and talk things out.
2007-03-27 09:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she (whom u considered ur bf)realy loved u, she would not have lied to u at any circumstance.
e-mail me in need of a friend.
pinkupaul@yahoo.com
2007-03-27 09:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by tinu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can i help u
2007-03-29 09:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by ashok t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋