we're dating 5months - got serious - and he decides to break up cause he had someone else on him minD- I said cool - and 2 weeks later I decided to date someone else i was interested in - he calls me, and starts calling me names, and when i said I loved him, says he does not... I ended that, and started talkin 2 him again, and he gets all shallow and sayin stuff again.... So i leave!!
he shifted countries for his job - calls me a few days later - He's met someone who he's been in love with for 4yrs and He is sorry abt the way i feel for him......
2 months later - gets back with me - 15 days later - gets to to tell him my deepest secret and then decides that I cant be with him cause of this - So i leave...
He flies back to country - 3 months later
begs for us to meet up - I dodged him the 15 days he was in town, and said NO!! not happening - However I wished him on his birthday.... He did not bother on mine!!
2007-03-27 02:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
contacted my ex after 3 months - after this
i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with a new women - Not the one he was in love with Last year - I gave it back to him, I gave him a piece of my mind - cause he put me through all this....
however I just don't know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
he was so rude,
My question is - I am feeling lost, and like i may never want another one of these things again - cause its devastating - however, I do need to move on - he's been playing with my feelings for 6 months - What do i do? whats your advice and opinions? help please - advice please..
2007-03-27 02:13:12 · update #1
He has been treating you like a consolation prize the whole time, waiting for something better. And since you followed him around like a lovesick puppy, you have done wonders for his selfish ego.
If his actions are as you described, he was not hiding anything. You just didn't want to see how he really felt about you, which is "she'll do til something better comes along".
You deserve much much better, so move on and live your life.
And remember, your self worth DOES NOT come from being in a relationship.
2007-03-27 02:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Karen? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 21:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the other person has answered, please let go of this man completely. He has his own problems. He's trying to manipulate your emotions. For me, loving someone means that person is in my heart for keeps. It's not a passing interest or something I can leave down and then pick up again later.
Don't contact him and ignore his advances.
Take time for yourself before looking for anyone else.
You deserve love that heals and uplifts.
Good luck.
2007-03-27 02:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ireland 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my lady move on stop all talk with this man and find a new man someone that will not treat you like a yo-yo. there are lots of guys out there and you need to keep your head strong to find the guy of your dreams. a real man would spend night and day try to keep you happy and in love. not in pain and craziness. Good luck.
2007-03-27 02:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get off the emotional roller coaster ride; end it once and for all with this guy. If he calls, don't answer; if he emails, delete them without reading them.
If he threatens to blackmail you by revealing your "deepest secret" don't cave into him. So what if something embarrassing is revealed? You're only human. And once its out, its over; he can never use it again.
2007-03-27 02:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your problem is a very easy one - stop talking to him. Obviously he's bouncing you around like a yo-yo and you're gobbling it up. You don't want to deal with it anymore? Cut off all contact and move on.
2007-03-27 02:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama for me, move on...Lifes too short for this nonsense.
2007-03-27 02:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋