why is that you commit a mistake even you are in a good relationship?

Answer 1

Because the emotional current is always there without one's knowlege in any relationship and mistake is committed unknowingly even if the relationship is very good. One cannot help it and so accept this as a reality.

Answer 2

We seem to know a person very well. We love them and expect the same in return. Initially everything seems to be fine, we slowly progress and get to know each other better and better until we are in a ' Good Relationship '.
Good relationships can be everlasting or can become sour with time depending on how we invest in these relationships.
If we take our relationships for granted ( - and many of us have made that mistake one time or the other - ) then there is a chance of us making a mistake , wherein knowinlgy or unknowingly we might do something which our friend does not approve or which might hurt him/her so much so that our relations might go from good to bad and then to worse...
Mistakes do happen
And also there are ways to rectify them as well as learn from them
Rectifying Mistakes is most easily done with a heartfelt ' Sorry ' and also making sure that you prove to your partner that you mean it and wouldnt make the same mistake again. Shedding ones Ego is what it takes and reconnecting might be difficult but it isnt impossible.
What we can Learn ( Especially what I have learnt ) is this
Never Never Never take a person for granted
Relationships are massive investments where we have spent precious time and mental energy getting to know another individual . Such relationships are priceless , because each human being is unique and one in a billion. Once we have connected with this unique individual and we are now related its like a multibillion dollar investment , and we should make sure that we take utmost care to ensure that nothing goes wrong. Do not take a relationship for granted. Make sure that you invest atleast a little bit of your love, your time, your energy for the person on a regular basis. Keep in touch , not only Physically , but also mentally and emotionally. Also let the other person know as to how important you consider the relationship to be. Think twice before you say or do something that you think might cause a rift between the two of you..... and expect the least in return. When expectations are minimal conflits are Zero !!! Love , care and do everthing that you can but do not keep very high expectations of the other person. This is where giving selfless love comes in.
In short , ensure that you do not take the relationship for granted :)
Wish you happiness
Das Kalyanpur

Answer 3

How come a relationship is related with committing mistakes?

Answer 4

We commit mistakes because we are just human born with a sinful nature. Mistakes are there to remind us that nobody is perfect and therefore makes us humble. In a relationship also, it is there to test one's sincerity and faithfulness towards the other.

Answer 5

To error is human. Any one can commit a mistake. According to MK Gandhi, Nehru committed mistakes. According to Nehru, SC Bose, committed mistakes. According to present Gandhi, A B (Big B) committed mistakes.
I am right or comitted a mistake?

Answer 6

nice ques...actually we never know the reason that , why we does that...but having said that..u will also agree that "mistake" is some time relavant thing, so ...u feel one particular matter is right according to u but yr spouse or whatever has some different idea abt it...so he/she might consider that is yr mistake...and one more reason according to me is..if u r in very good relationship then,,,,u both expect high frm each other and if one of them fails to deliver that expectation then ..its considered as a mistake.

Answer 7

Probably because we don't bother to think before we act. Next time, before you let your emotions run away with you, take a brief moment to consider the consequences of what you might do or say.
Life is short. And much more pleasurable if you just let the small, unimportant stuff slide. In the long run, who really cares?

Answer 8

Because you're human, like the rest of us. If we were honest, most of us would have to admit to making "mistakes".

I don't know how serious your mistake was but I think if you are honest about it and truly sorry, that's the best way to go.

Good luck to you.

Answer 9

Everyone makes mistakes, YOU ARE HUMAN. But you need to make it up to your spouse, they need to find a reason to love and trust you again. Just because you made a mistake, you don`t deserved to be abandoned. Get help, or ask for forgiveness.Time heals wounds, TRUST ME. I`m trying hard to get him to forgive me.

Answer 10

We are only human. The only way you can recover from a mistake is to learn from it. You can't undo the past but you can make it a learning experience to improve your future.