We planned to live together in the near future. Her main problem is that she is frustrated about the success of her future life with me. She was doing well but this problem is seen after we finished almost all of our duties that enable us live together. She told me that she is still healthy regardless of her thoughts about the success of her marriage. In short, she told me that she will be better if we stop the issue.
2007-03-27 01:57:48 · 15 answers · asked by omaruky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she has an eating disorder and is needing attention or she has cancer and hasn't told you that she's on chemo. The first is most likely, why does she worry about this so much? That's the real question. Does she have reason not to think things will go well? Is her heart not in it? She has doubts obviously and doesnt trust herself enough to make her own decisions so she's crying out for someone else to decide for her. WHY?
2007-03-27 02:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to worry too much about her life and the future because this worrying will be the only cause of the problems if she doesn't learn how to calm down. Thinking about the future, anything that could be frightening should be possible to solve together with you. Tell her this.
2007-03-27 09:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by csapdani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you concerned about her weight? How much does she weigh, how tall is she? If she has a problem do not force her to eat you'll only make it worse. Just ask her what's going on and if there's anything that you can do to help. My husband had told me when we had first met that if I didn't start to eat he would take me to the hospital. I was 93lbs and 5'3. Maybe you should take her to the hospital if shes getting to bad.
Good luck hope it works out for you guys :)
2007-03-27 09:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could clarify the question. But from what I could gather she sounds like shes needs a doctor to evaluate her. It is very sweet that you care enought to be concerned. If she is depressed or suffers from some other mental or emotional issue you will not be able to help yourself. Lots of luck to you and her.
2007-03-27 09:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by sugarfoot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE HER, take care of her,but let her live her life, give her the break she needs, and I am sure the rest will fall right back into place. And most of all ask her to see a second doctor, she just might be okay, second appointee is right.
2007-03-27 09:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your wive anorexic? Is she bolemic? what is she doing to herself? She needs counseling and help for what she is feeling and for her eating disorder. Have you both been to marriage counseling yet as this may help. Go to http://www.drphil.com end email him with this story and see if he can help in any way. Why does she not want to be with you if i may ask? Why does she dread living with you again? She needs to work on her feelings about this issue and try to become stronger and to be able to face this head on. Seh also needs to seek medical attention and help for her health issues as well. She may even have cancer or something like that and may not even know it. This is scary and she needs to get help for whatever it is asap before it ends up killing her!
2007-03-27 09:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you dont want to upset her but you are just worried about her. Ask her if she would be willing to go to the doctors just to double check that she is still healthy to help set you mind at ease.
2007-03-27 09:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are all the people posting at Yahoo today foreigners or is our educational system in this country really that bad?
Clean up this junk and re-post it so it makes sense.
Damn!
2007-03-27 09:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She apparently suffers from an eating disorder. I would suggest getting her some help in that field.
2007-03-27 09:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by Grampa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest she seek medical attention, if that doesn't work
try speaking with her family/friends.
As for the relationship- I don't know what to tell you, other
than hang in there if you want it to work.
2007-03-27 09:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋