2007-03-27 01:28:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's cheating. I'm going to assume he's tried to keep it a secret from you, and when you do things in secret it's usually because there is guilt involved, which means you shouldn't be doing it. He's looking to be unfaithful. Why wait for the deed to happen?
2007-03-27 02:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that takes time and energy from your relationship can be considered cheating. Whether that is physical or emotional. Maybe you could ask him what he's getting from talking to them, or better yet what exactly he's doing? Besides the question of why would he be paying to talk to someone when you are obviously there? Try not to put him on the defense, but be ready for some tough answers. Have you thou hgt about counseling? Best wishes to you.
2007-03-27 01:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by sugarfoot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cheating
a friend of mine her parents have been married for 54 yrs live in a huge home have everything and some. My friends father sits on the computer all the time talking to strange people, he is 74 yrs old. He just told his wife 2 weeks ago he wants a divorce. He met a women on line who thinks he has a ton a money when in reality my friends mother has the money and everything is in her name. He also told this lady that he is in his fifties
Just goes to show on line you can be every ones fantasy and be whomever and what ever you want to be
2007-03-27 01:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥CyN♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it has anything to do with sex, then yes, I consider it cheating. Why does he talk on the phone or online to strangers? He SHOULD be talking to YOU. Even though it might be just talking, it's still hurtful.
2007-03-27 01:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what they are talking about...I'm assuming its sex, and if that is the case, he should try to involve his wife in some way. If he's doing it out of boredom or frustration (with his wife) then he is playing in the fires of infidelity, and he should stop chatting it up "with babes" online and start chatting it up (and be real) with his wife.
2007-03-27 01:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider it cheating. But it's not a good sign for the relationship.
2007-03-27 01:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not really cheating,but it's dishonest,and I would be pissed off big time if it was my husband.
2007-03-27 01:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be offended extremely and it is very sneaky on his part why would he need to do that, not good if you ask me. Has he told you he does it or have you caught him. I think you need to tell him how you feel and I would say it is cheating, cheating on you and your vows. Good luck to you.
2007-03-27 01:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating, why would you want to do this anyway? Nothing like the real thing. People abuse their computers all the time. I just don't get it...
2007-03-27 01:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah I agree with the first answer it is cheating if the wife does'nt know, but if she does ,shes either agrees to it or does'nt agree to it, and she should tell him to stop .If he doesn't stop then that is a problem
2007-03-27 01:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋