affair with Sister in-law?

Question

my sister in-law recently visited (my city) without my brother. We have a close relationship but we took it one step further after going out drinking..should we continue since we both enjoy each other more and more, or say something to my brother and ruin our relationship as well as theres

Answer 1

no........stay away from her, she is your brother's wife. leave it alone

Answer 2

Don't do it again. I've seen what it does. My brother slept with our sister in-law. It crushed my other brother when it all came out. Nothing has ever been the same between the two of them and they were best friends. Our family did everything together all the time. The married couples never had outside friends because we had each other. Once the affair was revealed the family was left in ruin. One side supports one brother, and the other side refuses to give up on the cheating brother. We've been lost and our connections have become limited. It is a constant source of pain for my mother because none of us can be together. It's been six years and it's still a problem. the brother who cheated has done everything to try and redeem himself and nothing has worked. And don't tell your brother just leave it alone and sever all contact with her. Unless you're looking to destroy your brother you will regret it forever. And even if his destruction is on your mind, it's not worth it. You'll never come back from it.

Answer 3

While the pain you can cause is quite clear by the responses of genuine concern and hardship these nice people have offered, your last question was, and I quote,

"Should i sleep with my step brother's wife....she wants it and is HOT?"

So both your step-brother's wife AND your brother's wife want to or have slept with you? What a steaming pile of donkey sh*t that is.

I think you are a lousy troll who is full of S H I T. And that's almost as mean as someone screwing their brother's wife.

Hey here's an idea - find a hobby that doesn't involve deceiving other people and then giggling about it like a greasy little retard. Try lowering that worthless little pecker you rub all the time when you type this crap into a meat grinder, for instance.

Answer 4

You take that secret to the grave with you!! Let it go and dont let it happen again. He is your brother you shouldhave respected him in the first place but at the very least you can spare him the pain. Keep your distance from her...Just look at it this way if you were to keep it a secret and only did it that once and he was to find out yes he would deeply hurt and probably not alk to you for a little while but he would get over it at some point. If you were to keep sleeping with her and he found out about it that would be a different story and he would probably not consider you a brother anymore.

Pick your own destiny...But I think you already sealed your fate..All things have a way of coming out of the closet to haunt you, so becareful.

Answer 5

what happend is natural sometimes women feel attracted to their spouses brother due to the "danger" of it. This doesnt mean that she wants a relationship with you. It just means that she needed some variety and spice. She shouldnt call it off with him and you shouldnt expect her too. Its most likely a one time steamy affair and if it happens again its a two time one. Dont expect her to leave your brother and if you cared about his feelings youd not let it happen again. He is your brother and what runs thicker than blood is tar. You are tanting your relationship with your brother with tar, if this continues. So just call it a steamy one time thing and nip it in the bud.

Answer 6

RESPECT your brother! I can't believe you. If you tell your brother then your respecting him. Tell him because that girl he's with doesn't deserve him at all. But if your brother finds out on his own... lets just go to show that even I know the possibilities of what could happen. So you better tell him... NOW. But in person. You are just ahhhhh. You are such a... ya know what your not effin worth it.

Answer 7

you realize this will screw up the entire family, not just your relationship w/ your brother, and your brother's relationship w/ his wife.

If you think this is worth pursuing my advice is both of you need to move away...FAR away...

otherwise...keep the sword in it's hilt and dont even THINK about pursuing something further with this woman..

Answer 8

Nice going. I see someone forgot all about B.O.B. (Brothers Over Babes) Your brother can forgive you for making a mistake. If that's what his wife is like, it would have happened with anyone. You need to ask yourself if you can be a man, and tell him.

Answer 9

If I was you if you have any feelings towards your brother, if you value your relationship with him I would speak of it no more. You are flirting with disaster, your brother may never forgive you, nothing is more important than family. If she will cheat on your brother she will cheat on you. She is not worth your losing your bond you have with your brother. I would never be alone with her in the future either. I teach my kids NO person is worth losing your relationship with your brother.

Answer 10

No, no and no.

Please stay away from this woman, she's married to your brother, this can only end in tears for you all.

Find another woman, she chose to MARRY your brother. You have to wonder what her motives could be? What sort of a person would do that to her husbands brother, and what sort of a brother would do that to his own flesh and blood - think yourself above that level.

Answer 11

chalk it up to a mistake and move on ..there is to many lives that can be distroyed plus blood is thicker than water and your brother should come first over your sister in law.. look at it this way she cheated on your brother with you , then more than likely if you had her she would cheat on you with someone else.