Is she bieng a b*tch?

Question

Well she's my best friend...and sometimes she's really mean...and hits me wen she's not happy with what i say (i try to think of it as "playful".....and ignore it) And she always tries to be very sexy in front of the boys and always talk about disgusting stuff....i don't wanna tell her that she's being trashy though. And i asked her if i could use one of her dance moves in a dancing competition....and she said "OK! but u have to tell the "guys" that it was my idea!!" then i said "Do they really have to know?" And she smiled and then said something under her breath (not to my face...) "It's still my move" or something like that. I want to get away from her but she keeps on coming near me and talking about herself and stuff....and she acts very clingy.....and she always points out my bad stuff to the WHOLE class (like how i can't swim...) and laughs at me......although the CLASS doesn't get what's so funny. So what should i dooo?

(P.S. she tells bad stuff about my other friends to me)

Answer 1

First of all, tell her to her face how u feel (if not u will be acting kinda like she does). Everyone deserves a second opportunity but not a third. If she is still so bi.chy then hang out with other people that will make u feel appreciate it and from whom u can actually gain positive things.

U r important and no one should hurt u physically or make fun of u in front of others.

hope this helps

Answer 2

You need to just move on your merry way. She is no friend. It sounds like she doesn't know how to be a friend.

It may be hard to avoid her when she is in your class, but your best bet is to just be sweet to her but don't sit next to her or talk to her for too long.

Just say Hi and stuff.

Keep your distance. She's going to get a bad reputation and you don't want to get one too by hanging around her.

Answer 3

Sorry but this girl is not your best friend. Best friends do not treat you that way. She is obviously a selfish and mean person. Why do you hang around with her? Get out there and find new friends...ones that are truly your friends.

Answer 4

Definitely. You shouldn't treat your friends like that! Its mean!

>hits me wen she's not happy with what i say (i try to think of it as "playful".....and ignore it)

friends don't do that! My advice, ignore her completely.

Answer 5

yes, she is acting like a *****, and she is obviously jealous of you.hitting your friends is not ok. in front of your class tell her shes a *****, to leave you alone, and u don't need a awful friend like her. then when she comes and bugs u, ignore her.karma hunny, karma will come her way.

Answer 6

GET A NEW FRIEND.... PLUS IT SEEM LIKE HOME GUR IS JEALOUS OF YOU AND HAVE NO CONFIDENCE TOO. TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL AND DONT LET HER GET TO YOU. PEOPLE LIKE HER LOOK FOR FRIENDS LIKE YOU,( THE TYPE THAT WONT SAY HOW THEY FEEL AND LET THEM STEP OVER THEM) BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT HAPPY WITH WHO THEY ARE. SHE KNOWS THAT YOU CAN DO BETTER WITHOUT HER BUT SHE CANT DO THE SAME WITHOUT YOU... SO EITHER STAND UP TO HER OR KICK HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE FOR GOOD...

Answer 7

i think that you should tell her that she's being pretty bitchy lately and you're not happy wid it , i guess u shud tell her softly so that she cud understand and hope dat she'll change.. if she really piss u off then u can tell her all stuffs that u dun like boud her, but u have 2 accept the consequences that u'll b facing..

Answer 8

What I find amazing about this story is that you consider this abusive, bullying moron a friend. Your best friend, even. Sure hate to see what your enemies are like.

Answer 9

she is being a b*tch! no one that wants to be ur friend should treat u like that! u need a better friend! next time she hits u, u should hit her back!