Was dating a gemini guy a while ago. We gelled right from the start, said that he liked me alot but wasn't in the frame of mind for any commitments then, typical commitment phobic and a person who loves his freedom. so I give him an ultimatum and let him know that there is no going back after this decision, and he still said look I like you but I can't offer any girl any commitments right now, but if I were looking for someone you would be the one you are every thing I look for in a woman you have intellect, a great sense of humour & ambition if it was 2 years from now when I am ready 2 settle you would be the one. So it ended he still called me wanting to be friends but I ended all contact. Anyway we had got back into contact time has gone pass,I have even brought a house & he likes me all over again and is saying that he wants to start something serious, but I am not as into him as I was b4. Should I give him a chance even though this GEMINI was unable 2 commit b4, he is 31, I am 26?
2007-03-27 00:37:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
all depends on how much you want love in your life. one thing for sure is he is an honest bloke. he let you knew where he was in his life then and now he is letting you know where he is at. i think that's sound. just depends on where your at. congrats on the house.
2007-03-27 00:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by booths 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gemini Ex Boyfriend
2016-10-31 23:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by mulry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 00:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gemini are none to be morons, but that fact of the matter is he is an ex move ahead not back. You sound like your getting your life in order and what a better way 4 him to get his life on track than moving into your home. he besides that fact that he is a Gemini never mind his sign says it all.
2007-03-27 01:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♥CyN♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a Gemini and his behavior is very typical. We have a hard time commiting and making up our minds. But I'll tell you a trick. If you want a Gemini to commit to you, you have to always act as if you could leave him at any time. The girls I have commited too the most have been the ones i had to keep chasing. When I know a girl wants me I get very flakey and breezy because I know I have her. It sounds messed up, but thats how most Gemini are. It doesn't mean we don't care about the person.. we just like freedom and we don't work unless we have too. Hope that helps
2007-03-29 12:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You know, I would follow your intuition on this one. Geminis are what we would consider the "wanderers" of the world. They can change residence, career, loves, you name it, at the drop of a hat and be perfectly happy. Now this doesn't mean that they can't ever commit to someone, but you have to either be an extremely stable and patient partner, or you have to be a very independent person so you can be doing your own thing and won't be waiting around for them. Some Geminis can entertain the urge to wander by educating themselves in many different things; they love to be educated and love to learn. But for others, they just can't rein in that desire to wander, and this is more so a problem with the men than the women. If your ex has had commitment problems in the past, I think you've answered this question as to which of the two he is, and you have an idea of what a future together may look like.
I can't make this decision for you, but you seem like you are starting to make smart choices for your future so it would seem to me like you would be taking a step backward if you were to allow this guy back into your life. If it was me, I would tell him, "I'm sorry, I like you but I can't offer any man any commitments right now. When I was looking for someone way back when, you would have been the one, but now that I am looking toward my future I really don't have anymore room for you in my life. Goodbye!". Tell yourself that you deserve a guy who doesn't have control and maturity issues. If you truly were "the one" he would have committed himself to you and only you, not to a lifestyle where he can do what he wants. Good luck to you, Girl; I know you'll make the right decision!
2007-03-27 02:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by TNTMA 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
As you said Gemini people love their freedom...so why not give him some....?You can date him with the understanding that you both can see other people.This way you are not all tied up to him and can meet other guys.But at the same time you are giving him a chance to prove what he says is true.See how it goes for while and if he has changed and you feel that you want to give it another try then go for it.If not you are still dating other guys and enjoying yourself.
2007-03-27 05:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-12 12:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you don't end it, he will be removed from your life by other means. This person does not have your best interests at heart. Move on. He's not all that entirely honest anyway.
2007-03-27 01:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by mhiaa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell Ur cousins ex how u feel then tell Ur cousin. It will all work out for the best
2016-03-17 03:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋