How can I stop my daughter's best friend from having sex because she is still a virgin and her friends are not?
2007-03-26 23:47:24 · 10 answers · asked by rjw30ishny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I dont know if you can stop her. If you want to try you can advice her she might obey otherwise you can do nothing. Shes an individual.
2007-03-27 00:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Chaste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps try this, it's subtle.
Have her over and enjoy a meal together. During the course of the meal talk about a 'family' that doesn't exist, as normal (remember you're prob not supposed to know about the sex thing). Mention the youngest just got married, then you kinda blush, hubby asks what's up, you mention falteringly that well, the guy is her first, he asks, what at her age, wow, now that's something he has the world of respect for, agree with him, then have him kinda 'realise' the 'kids' are there too and quickly move along & don't mention it again. It helps fpr her to see people's reaction to this, and not to be lectured. ;)
2007-03-27 00:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a difficult thing to want to do. She probably also feels alot of pressure because shes still a virgin. I have 2 teenage girls and they have friends who made a pack together to remain virgins until marriage. We are spiritually connected to God and that is how I get them to not have sex. and guess what... It works. I pray for them and in turn i see the results of my prayers in the decisions they have been making for themselves.
2007-03-26 23:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't, maybe talk about the wrong things like what can happp i'm 16 and i'm waiting for the right guy most of wait let me say that agai ALL of my mates are not virgin but i'm waitin for the right guy in my time no 1 else i don't care if i get picked on cos of it either cos i will not be the 1 who's preg my mates will be i hope this is ok
2007-03-26 23:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could talk to her and explain why having sex is dangerous. In other words she could end up pregnant just because she wants to have sex.
2007-03-27 01:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by ron6taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, kids will do what they want to do.
And hopefully your daughter won't give in to peer pressure, Deep down she is probably listening to you, all you can do is pray that you have raised her well. give her an eye opener as far as stds and what it would be like if she got pregnant.
2007-03-26 23:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was in your shoes I'll try to protect my child from her friends.try anything that you think can help.on my side I'd anything that will prevent my child from destroying her life.
Chase away those friends of hers from your house make sure that they know that you don't want them near your child.friends can influence each Arther so easy.
Look after your child even if you have to choose friends for her .
2007-03-27 00:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by zoleka k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant stop someone from having sex.. depending on age if under 16+ talk to her folks.
2007-03-26 23:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-26 23:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
scare her with STDs
2007-03-26 23:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by Orochimaru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋